For Those Leaving The Forum

I'm certain none appreciate diversity more than you, Howard.

It's very coincidental you bring this to the table now, as I recently had an unsuccessful intervention with a regular forumite who did decide to leave quietly. I did not know him as well as yourself, as I was not close and lacked your sensitivity and apriori knowledge, but felt the moral obligation to let him know he had contributed much to the forum. Out of respect for his wishes I will not mention his name, and as moderator I will certainly endeavor to be sensitive to this need in the future.



munk
 
munk said:
I'm certain none appreciate diversity more than you, Howard.

It's very coincidental you bring this to the table now, as I recently had an unsuccessful intervention with a regular forumite who did decide to leave quietly. I did not know him as well as yourself, as I was not close and lacked your sensitivity and apriori knowledge, but felt the moral obligation to let him know he had contributed much to the forum. Out of respect for his wishes I will not mention his name, and as moderator I will certainly endeavor to be sensitive to this need in the future.

munk
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I hate it when people leave. Not just on forums. My mom used to cry every time someone left (except my dads brother). I guess no-one likes it. No method is all encompasing, and we've seen some ugly parting of ways around here lately. I guess sometimes quiet is as good as anything else. I did like Gord's thread though. And Gord too. Be nice when he returns, returns I like.
 
I remember reading something somewhere about how our relationships with others are all, in their essence, temporary (at least in their earthly form) and have a beginning and end. Once one accepts and appreciates this, one can more fully honor the relationship throughout its course, including the end.

(Not sure if this ties in with this thread or if it comes across as some kind of psychobabble - just some thoughts triggered by the posts.)

Eric
 
Eric, your post is right on the money:
"... and have a beginning and end. Once one accepts and appreciates this, one can more fully honor the relationship throughout its course, including the end."

In most instances, if one worries about sharing in a post, too much or too little or not quite right: err on the side of the share. Put it out there.
That's my take on our forum.



munk
 
Munk,

Thanks. Being new to the HI forum, the first forum I have actually participated in, I appreciate your words.

Maybe others can relate - I'm not really sure how I ended up here, but I'm glad I'm here.

Eric
 
Eric, chances are you are here for a very good reason. I like to think of Divine Grace rather than blind accident, but either way you are here and welcome.



munk
 
I'm still here Munk, not much time to "talk". Been pretty busy. :o


I still like visiting that's for sure.
 
Hi guys. I still check in from time to time, but haven't posted in a while it seems. No khuk. purchases for a while either, and my wife is probably glad about that. Caught the black rifle disease and figure that interest will be more expensive in the long run. Still in process of setting up my shop so I can put a good convex edge on my khuks. Have all the stuff, but need to kick my butt into gear.

Jeff
 
I got to clean up my gun and reloading room and I'm daunted by the mess.


munk
 
AS has been said before by Monk, things often change in peoples lives, and the fellowship that is shared by HI, forimites is a special thing. I dont usually post. but I do follow and enjoy very much of what each member, has too share and I do appreciate it.I may remain silent for the most part , but I do share an appreciation for all the comments and knowledge, smoke and prayers that are asked for and recieved.In my family the blades I have recieved from Bill and Yangdu are revered for what they are and represent. I would like to thank all members who regularly post a comment, and will try as best I can too remain a regular follower of this forum. bless you all in the troubled times we share. its just not knife thing.With respect. East fork.
 
Damn, Eastfork. Four posts in three years?
And you're in Montana too.
Welcome.
Welcome here too and thanks.


munk
 
I enjoy reading postings in here. Seldom make posting. Now I am still here. When the times come I may just fade away and forgotten. That's life!

Hafiz Shirazi wrote ..
This tired life is the flood of age,
With a full cup began this outrage.
Wake up, and see the carrier of time
Slowly carries you along life’s passage.
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Not feeling particularly loquacious, but this thread personifies the characteristics that make this forum addictive. Rare - to be treasured, on the WWW.
Work/Family pressure can take anyone out of the daily loop.
Most of us can sneak a look sometime, to keep up.

Some wonderful sentiments here..

I like to think of Divine Grace rather than blind accident
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I remember reading something somewhere about how our relationships with others are all, in their essence, temporary (at least in their earthly form) and have a beginning and end. Once one accepts and appreciates this, one can more fully honor the relationship throughout its course, including the end.
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And the trigger..
We are here,
Then not.
The wind still stirs the leaves
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Couldnt leave if I wanted to - might miss a gem:D
Regards to all.
Honoured to be here.
Brent.
 
I'm here; I just don't have as much to say as I once did. All this petty squabbling stuff is beyond me though.
 
Me too Josh...


BTW...*I* left the forum and *no one* said anything about missing me...

Why...I was quite upset *all* night about it.

Nice to be back this morning.
 
I am here most days. Caregiving drags me down emotionally and sometimes physically. The forum lifts my spirits , at times, until the various egos on the forum become irritating and I tune out for a while. Alot of good folks with immense knowledge of many subjects, out of my league.
The newest and various models coming out with Yangdu at the helm, bring up 'wantitus' periodically, but having spent about 11K on khuks over the past 3 years or so, I had to severely restrict my desires. I read somewhere that irrestible spending was a form of depression? Mom's medical people appear to be more worried about me than her, at times. I'm still holding up but really gets stressful at times.
 
Well I ain't leavin anytime soon, though I might not post all that often, if I can't think of anything to add.
I figure it's better to keep your mouth shut and have people think you're stupid than to open it and remove all doubt.
 
I removed all doubt a long time ago. I figured it was good to get it over with. It was a weight to carry. On the other hand, maybe it wasn't much of a surprise....well, with that happy thought, here's another:

"And the trigger..

Quote:" (Brent)

"We are here,
Then not.
The wind still stirs the leaves" (Spectre)

Brent quoted three different people, put something together for himself and us to see.
I like that.
We ought to make a note; Brent did something socially redeemable on such and such a time and place.


munk
 
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