gangsta965084 backs out of trade after committing

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did you ask him why he changed his mind? maybe he got a bad feeling about sending his knife first. sounds like it just wasn't meant to be.
 
Come on man. That's not what he said. He's saying that once someone agrees to a trade/sale they should honor their commitments. Can you really say that you disagree with that?
I'm all for honoring commitments, always have honored my own. I do not disagree with it, my point is that one never knows what happens on the other end that would cause a person to back out. This is a hobby to me, and I deal with enough blowhards at work and other unsavory personalities on a daily basis, it would be sad if this turned into the same thing. YMMV.
 
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it doesent matter if you dident go through with it.

no deal = no feedback in my opinion.
 
All of our emails are below. The only edits I've made are to protect mine and the other sides email addresses and mailing addresses.

First Exchange:

Sounds good to me. You're ok with sending first, correct?
From: [gangsta965084]
Date: Fri, 20 Jan 2012 21:14:08 -0500
To: [OOITZOO]<[OOITZOO]>
Subject: Re: trade

That depends on where you get it from. Ok $20, zt 0550, and the endura with the wave.

On Jan 20, 2012, at 8:47 PM, [OOITZOO] wrote:

> With respect, I disagree on the valuation for the zt. I think its worth around 240. I can add $20 to sweeten the deal but that's about it. Please let me know. Thanks.
> From: [gangsta965084]
> Date: Fri, 20 Jan 2012 19:29:17 -0500
> To: Michael Polyak<[OOITZOO]>
> Subject: Re: trade
>
>
>
> The zt is 200 and the endurance wave is 65~ how about all that plus $40 and I'll ship first!
>
> On Jan 20, 2012, at 7:25 PM, Michael Polyak <[OOITZOO]> wrote:
>
>> I'd do the zt + endura wave. How does that sound?
>>
>> --- On Fri, 1/20/12, [gangsta965084]wrote:
>>
>>
>> From: [gangsta965084]
>> Subject: Re: trade
>> To: [OOITZOO]
>> Date: Friday, January 20, 2012, 7:22 PM
>>
>> If you hav anything else I'd be glad to trade!
>>
>> On Jan 20, 2012, at 7:18 PM, Michael Polyak <[OOITZOO]> wrote:
>>
>>> Sorry, just to be clear, the seb you're trading has a birthdate on May 11, 2010, correct?
>>>
>>> I'd look for a small throw in for the ZT + hawk or lum. I think we are off by around $60. Let me know what you think.
>>>
>>> Also, I notice you've got only 6 feedback. Are you comfortable with sending first? I have well over 80.
>>>
>>> Thanks,
>>> Mike
>>>
>>> --- On Fri, 1/20/12, [gangsta965084]wrote:
>>>
>>>
>>> From: [gangsta965084]
>>> Subject: Re: trade
>>> To: [OOITZOO]
>>> Date: Friday, January 20, 2012, 7:16 PM
>>>
>>>
>>> The 11th it's the lg one! All do it for the zt550+spyderco lum or superhawk.
>>>
>>> On Jan 20, 2012, at 7:05 PM, Michael Polyak <[OOITZOO]> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Is it may 10th or 11th?
>>>>
>>>> What else interests you?
>>>>
>>>> High end and discontinued Spyderco's and a Busse Skinny ASH
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> --- On Fri, 1/20/12, [gangsta965084] wrote:
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> From: [gangsta965084]
>>>> Subject: trade
>>>> To: [OOITZOO]
>>>> Date: Friday, January 20, 2012, 7:03 PM
>>>>
>>>> yea its the large born in may 10 of last year. Ill take the zt 550 and something else. What are you willing to add?


Second exchange (had to tie this together from multiple emails):



Re: trade
Saturday, January 21, 2012 11:26 AM
From:
[gangsta965084]
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To:
[OOITZOO]
Nevermind I'll just keep the sebenza.


Re: trade
Saturday, January 21, 2012 10:52 AM
From:
[gangsta965084]
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To:
[OOITZOO]
I can see why you would want to hold off but why not send at the same time?there was a ton of freezing rain this morning so I'm going to wait till noon to go to the post office. After I give you the delivery confermation you should ship then.

On Jan 21, 2012, at 1:56 AM, Michael Polyak <[OOITZOO]> wrote:

> Sorry, I don't mean to be rude but I am going to wait for the seb to arrive before sending. I feel that the imbalance in feedback warrants this. If you're not ok with it then I understand but please let me know now.
>
> Thanks again,
> Mike
>
> --- On Fri, 1/20/12, [gangsta965084] <[gangsta965084]> wrote:
>
>
> From: [gangsta965084] <[gangsta965084]>
> Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: trade
> To: [OOITZOO]
> Date: Friday, January 20, 2012, 11:45 PM


Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: trade
Friday, January 20, 2012 11:32 PM
From:
"[OOITZOO]" <[OOITZOO]>
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To:
[gangsta965084]
The zt is bnib and the endura wave is lnib. They both have boxes.

Just to be clear, there are no issues with the seb? The birthdate is 5/11/2010, correct?
From: [gangsta965084]
Date: Sat, 21 Jan 2012 04:24:21 +0000
To: <[OOITZOO]>
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: trade

i might depends on how much it is, BTW are the knives your sending lnib and do they come with boxes?


Re: Re: Re: Re: trade
Friday, January 20, 2012 11:00 PM
From:
"[OOITZOO]" <[OOITZOO]>
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To:
[gangsta965084]
Yep. I would use insurance given the value of the package but that's your call. Please send me the tracking number when you have it.
From: [gangsta965084]
Date: Sat, 21 Jan 2012 03:34:23 +0000
To: <[OOITZOO]>
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: trade

dont forget the $20!!

[ADDRESS REMOVED]

are you going to send priority with delivery confarmation?

e: Re: Re: trade
Friday, January 20, 2012 10:31 PM
From:
"[OOITZOO]" <[OOITZOO]>
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To:
[gangsta965084]
Its ooitzoo.

[ADDRESS REMOVED]

Please me your address as well so I can get the zt/endura boxed up.

Thanks,
Mike
From: [gangsta965084]
Date: Sat, 21 Jan 2012 03:29:53 +0000
To: <[OOITZOO]>
Subject: Re: Re: Re: trade

ill ship 2mrw what is your address? do the knives come with boxes?

mine address is

[ADDRESS REMOVED]

btw what is your name on bf so i can put it in the thread, stating that i traded it.



Re: Re: trade
Friday, January 20, 2012 10:25 PM
From:
"[OOITZOO]" <[OOITZOO]>
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[gangsta965084]
I will send $20 in cash with the zt/endura. That is, unless you want it sent to pp for some reason.

To be frank, I'm not comfortable with sending this at the same time as you. If you're ok with sending first then we're good to go. If not then I guess we can part ways here. Please let me know.
From: [gangsta965084]
Date: Sat, 21 Jan 2012 02:26:34 +0000
To: <[OOITZOO]>
Subject: Re: Re: trade

Ill ship 2mrw, you should too. I have never ripped anyone off nor do i have plans. so how will you send the $20? Paypal?
 
As is obvious from the above email exchange, I asked him to send first in the 2nd or 3rd email. He agreed repeatedly then flaked out on the trade at the last minute. Just wanted to get this out there for folks to know about in case it happens again. Just a data point.
 
did you ask him why he changed his mind? maybe he got a bad feeling about sending his knife first. sounds like it just wasn't meant to be.

I did. He claimed that I dropped the "you send first" thing on him as a late ultimatum. As the emails I've posted show, I asked him VERY early on in our negotiation.

I'm all for honoring commitments, always have honored my own. I do not disagree with it, my point is that one never knows what happens on the other end that would cause a person to back out. This is a hobby to me, and I deal with enough blowhards at work and other unsavory personalities on a daily basis, it would be sad if this turned into the same thing. YMMV.

I agree that one is allowed to change his mind. However, don't tell me you're happy to send and all is fine then wait for me to take everything down in trade and sale threads and THEN tell me you're backing out. Its just bad etiquette and feels rather scummy.

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it doesent matter if you dident go through with it.

no deal = no feedback in my opinion.

I'm not leaving feedback. Just a warning for others. Obviously, if this is an isolated event then it won't be a problem.

He sounds like a flake, don't mean you have to be one too...man-up and move on.

How am I being a flake? I am relaying my experience with someone on the forum.
 
More important things to worry about in this great World of ours. Move on.

I have moved on. Simply putting this out there so folks can have a data point to compare to. If this becomes a pattern with this guy then we can track it. If not then not.
 
I want my name to be taken out now! I have done nothing wrong I have the RIGHT to say no to whoever I want to.

Good job on bumping a month old thread. This thread didn't mean much to you when it was first started (you said so yourself on email.) This is my experience in dealing with you. Its based on facts that I can easily back up with emails/forum posts.
 
I just want my name taken out of the thread.

Again, am I missing something? This has been up for over a month. What's the motivation to remove it now? If I remove your name then that eliminates the purpose of the thread. If I've missed something let me know.
 
Again, am I missing something? This has been up for over a month. What's the motivation to remove it now? If I remove your name then that eliminates the purpose of the thread. If I've missed something let me know.

I just got aware that there is a thread about me from another from member, If i had know about this along time ago i would have asked the same thing. Just take my name out now.
 
Again, am I missing something? This has been up for over a month. What's the motivation to remove it now? If I remove your name then that eliminates the purpose of the thread. If I've missed something let me know.

He wants his real name removed, and I don't blame him. Since there was no theft or scam I think that should be removed and his username left up.
 
I just got aware that there is a thread about me from another from member, If i had know about this along time ago i would have asked the same thing. Just take my name out now.

That's simply untrue. You commented in email that you didn't care. My guess is someone decided not to deal with you because of it and now you're mad.

He wants his real name removed, and I don't blame him. Since there was no theft or scam I think that should be removed and his username left up.

Normally, I'd remove it after a polite request to. However, I just got a PM from Gangsta effectively demanding that I do it. I see no reason why I should fold to his demands after he acted inappropriately.

10-4 whats the reason for having it.

So you don't change user names and pull the same thing with someone else...?


If a mod tells me to change it or wishes to change it himself then I can live with that. Otherwise, I don't see any reason why I would want to help out someone who's making rude demands and empty threats.
 
Dude... Just take his name out. Why the internet bully shit?

Who's being an internet bully? This thread was created over a month ago. Gangsta told him he couldn't care any less. Now he takes issue with it.

I've been nothing but polite AND stuck to the facts. At no point have I sent around demands or threats (gangsta has.) So who's the internet bully here?
 
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