Wow. OP has not disappeared. Not sure where to start here...
First off, here's my proposal to settle the fake question 100%. Send the knife to Spyderco. If they say it's theirs, I will cover round trip shipping. Costs you nothing if you're right. If they say it's fake, they get to keep or destroy it.
Please save me the time and post the emails. I've never returned anything through Paypal, so part of our dialogue was me trying to figure out how to cover the risk on my end. ALL of the risk was on my end. So disputing the transaction was the only way to document the return and cover my risk.
Me asking questions of other forum members trying to validate the knife...I fail to see that being negative.
I wasn't aware of the refusing delivery option. That's a new one to me - thanks.
I didn't flip flop on accepting the settlement offer. FOUR DAYS later, and still no money, and more than 24 hours after accepting the offer, and still no money, I called Paypal to ask how long I was supposed to wait. The nice lady took a quick look and closed it out right then and there for the full value per their policy. I mean you could have taken 2 minutes on Monday to be done with this. That's what I would have done. I gave you 2 days with no communication, nothing. I had to continue to initiate here.
If not recognizing a counterfeit knife at time of purchase puts all this on me, if that's seriously how everyone views this, then there's not much else to say. Accusations of flip flopping and whatever...this is far from buyer's remorse or other similar scenarios. I have never done anything like that.
In my attempt to cut this off early, I did make a bad assumption (well 2 counting the purchase) that Tony/Ganzo had created the shipper and not made it to the PO yet. My bad there. His portrayal of that paints it worse than you'll see in the emails.
I'm sure I missed some things so I will add more later.