Most shooters have had an unforgettable "oopsie!!" experience, and usually, USUALLY! nothing but someone's pride is hurt.
I had my "shooting safety" epiphany when I was about 12.
We (me, my father, and 8-10 visitors, grown men) were fixing to head off after pheasant. We were standing about in a big circle in the front yard of my parent's farmhouse.
My father had loaned me his old 20 ga. double barrel, and I was unfamiliar with tang safeties.
As the men talked about this and that, my young mind wandered a bit, and so did my trigger finger.
Mistake number one; I had already loaded the shotgun. Mistake number two, I couldn't remember what position of the safety equaled "safe". Mistake number three; my finger decided to see if the safety was on by pulling the trigger of the shotgun.
Of course, the safety was NOT on.
Those are all the things I did wrong. The one thing I did right was to have the shotgun pointing at the ground about two feet in front of my toes. This also happened to be somewhere in the middle of the circle of men who were talking.
Now, let me tell you from first hand experience. A high brass 20 gauge shell full of number six shot fired from very close range (about one foot) into soft, rather damp earth does excavate a fairly large hole.
Well, a veritable geyser of dirt and grass flew up into the air, high into the branches of the big elm tree we were standing under, and pitter-pattered down upon our heads.
This was somewhat of a conversation stopper. I did wish that I was small enough to drop into the hole in front of my feet. I was not, however, small enough.
To the credit of all of those men, not one of them yelled, berated me, or made a scene. My father came over, relieved me of the shotgun, unloaded it, and said "Maybe you'd better not load that until we get into the field. Keep your finger off the trigger."
I do remember seeing some very small smiles, here or there. I'm pretty certain that the dumbfounded look on my own face, followed by abject horror and shame, indicated to them all that nothing more was needed. I had learned my lesson.
I certainly had. I haven't had an incident since. I am very, very safety conscious, although I handle firearms every day.
Andy