..Yep, I get that too.
As it turns out, it is the religious right that keeps the govt in check when it comes to religious freedom. It is because of them that Native American churches can use Peyote for their vision quests and such, and keeps the state from taking religious rights. They also keep heathens from me from getting lynched by the state.
My only big objection to Xtianity (and the other abrahamic religions) is its history of abuse and control as an Org. I KNOW J-man did not intend for the Catholic church to force conversion on most of Europe, by fire and sword, the destruction of hofs, temples, and sacred enclosures, the massing of wealth by the Vatican, the Crusades, the Inquisiton, and so on. The unification and the reformation were tools for the church to weasel its way in to controlling the state by luring greedy kings and earls with the promise of a cut of the alms. As it ended up inn England, the church had the power to excommunicate a king for whatever reason they wanted, and it was usually done to preserve the churches poower over the state. (Sorry--all of this from my medieval studies degree)
My gripe is with commercialized, take-a-number organized religion. I'm a tribalist in this respect. I practice more by living each day than bowing or scarping at the lap of any god. I have gods I can curse at, laugh with, etc. Beware any divinity that lacks a sense of humor. I give blessings to my gods and goddesses, but not as a thrall (slave), but as a free man. I show respect to my gods my the ancestors, but they know I am not dependent upon any sort of salvation or spiffy gift they might bestow in the afterlife. I live for life, not to protect some squatter's rights in the afterlife. Heck, the secrets of the realms after death is all supposition by the living. And I can say that AFTER having a dramatic religious experience (the one that drew me to my path).
Also, I feel that a religion without goddesses is halfway to atheism.
Most folks just believe what they're taught, so if your parents go to church, you as a kid are expected to go. If you do not explore your options as you grow, how can you know your parents, or their parents, made the right spiritual choice for you?
Thee Most devout Christian I've ever met converted from Hinduism, and he had given this cinversion much thought. He researched, thought, and felt it was for him, and had good reasons. With folk like that, Christianity is strengthened.
Anyway, take what you like and leave the rest. I mean no offense, and I do realize I may have painted the history of (Catholic) Christianity in an unflattering light. I have no gripe with individuals, but Socialized Religion is wrong! I have friends of many faiths, and as I get older I see the value in each.
I am a patriot, and revel in the diversity of the tapestry that makes this USA, and the world. Takes all kinds.
Keith