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WE HAVE A WINNER !!! POST #57 WOO EMAIL ME TO GET YOUR SURPRISE GIFTS STARTED ON THEIR WAY TO YOU !!! MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL !!! (SEE OTHER POST IN ESEE)

Folks, please excuse me if I start to ramble, family trait. This is a thank you that is long overdue, but I could not post it before because my dear, loving, sweet, & adorable wife reads these as well. This is a thank you to a great guy, a stranger actually, a little story about how it took place, and a contest to say thanks to him.
As you can tell by my avatar & signature, my wife was diagnosed with breast cancer in March of this year. After we got our stomachs out of our throats in the doctor's office, we went home, a 27 mile drive, & not one word was spoken. After the shock had worn off a little, I, uh we, made up our minds we were going to battle this 'till we beat it. Through this all she kept two things very clear: her attitude, & her sense of humor. Only someone who has been thru this or has had it come into their lives knows what I am saying. Between March & April, Sally had endured 4 lumpectomy's & two exploratory surgeries. In June the surgeon said the cancer was just too wide spread, and the only sure way to give her a 95% chance was a double masectomy. She had the surgery in mid June, & within weeks of this surgery, started chemo treatments every two weeks. The most fantastic news we received this year was two weeks ago when her blood tests came back negative for cancer cells anywhere in her body, & her lymph nodes also tested negative. Now she is on the road to getting her strength built back up so we can hit the trails & the outdoors we missed so much this year. We did not get a chance to go one time this year, & I keep her spirits up by telling her this is like spring training for us, getting ready for next year . . . :)
Now for the thank you. I ordered her a pink Izula for Christmas from Howe's Knife Shop in Michigan (shamless, I know, shoot me ;) ) to celebrate what she has accomplished & to remind us always of where we have been. I saw a post on the forum about this particular fellow who had painted some sheaths pink & also had added some ribbons. I thought this would be the crowning touch to go with her knife. I p/m Mr. JFORBUSH regarding how to get this done, lead time, cost, shipping, & if there was any chance to have it back by Christmas. I think this was on a Tuesday. He told me if I could get it in the mail to him tomorrow, he would have it done & mailed back by Friday. I told him I did not need it that quickly, just before Christmas would be fine, but this guy was bound & determined it would be here. I again inquired regarding the cost, & he said just get the sheath to me & we "would work something out". I get an email on Friday that he has the sheath done, & will be mailing it back to me on Saturday. Again, I inquire about the cost, he said we would work it out. Well, the package got here on Monday, & I waited for Sally to go in for her usual afternoon nap. I waited and then went into my gun room to open it. The first thing I pull out is her original sheath & it is gorgeous (no video manager at this time, pictures to follow later . . . :thumbup: ). But there was still more bubblewrap, so I pulled the next one out & there was another sheath, not mine but one he had sent on his own accord. This one was also painted, but a different pattern & look just as great. But there was still more bubblewrap, and when I pulled this one out, Jeff had included another Izula knife of his that he had personalized along with some pink para-cord to wrap the handle. About this time as you can imagine, my eyes were just a little moist from this generosity of a complete & total stranger who would no more know me if I passed him on the street. And this man would not take one dime for all this work, not a cent !! This has been killing me trying to keep this a secret from her because I want her to see the generosity of what the spirit of Christmas really means, that someone basically donated his time & money, labor, and even items he had bought himself, & gave them to a perfect stranger.
Jeff, when you read this, I want you to know there is no amount of money I could offer that would let you know just how much this means to Sally and myself. What you did for us means more than I could possibly express in words. I am a firm believer in karma, & I know this will come back to you one of these days. Oh yeah, I used my college edumakashun & got ahold of my good friend Mr. Claus. Be sure & check your mailbox between now & Christmas, he is dropping off a "card" for you & your wife. Thank you again my good friend for this heartfelt gesture on your part.
Now for the contest. Since Mr. Forbush so kindly would not let me pay him for the gifts he gave to my wife, I am passing this along with his permission & my wanting to maybe help someone else as Jeff has helped my wife & I. Contest rules apply, 18 years or older, legal resident, etc. etc. Here's the entry fee: To be eligible, your post number is your entry number & will be selected randomly from all entries. Deadline is this coming Wednesday, the 22nd @ 6:00pm. Winner will be announced on Thursday afternoon, prize will be mailed out on Friday. I know, I apologize for not having it there by Christmas, but it would not be fair to only run this contest 1 or 2 days. Hey, it's Christmas, we all have a lot to be thankful for, especially the JUST1MOR household !!! :D
So get your posts in, "tell a buddy, bring a friend" (people in Ohio will recognize that line), and good luck to all. Oh yeah, almost forgot, the prize . . . . . . it's a surprise, guys, it's Christmas!! You know you are not supposed to know what "Santa Jeff" is bringing to you. . . Good luck to all,
Jeff, thank you again, & just in case, Esav, Texas Tony, Jeff, & Mike, sorry for taking up so much server space.
Merry Christmas to all,
Be safe.
Edit: Guys, no explanation needed, your post number will be your entry. Just you guys reading this will make Sally's day when she see it. Thanks.
 
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It was wonderful to read your story. It's nice to see there are still some quality people in the world. Good luck with your contest and God bless you and your wife.
 
I'm glad to hear your wife is doing well. That is the most important thing. You are in a great community here in the ESEE world. From the top down, I don't think anyone could ask for more. Merry Christmas to your family and everyone here in our little ESEE world!
 
thats an amazing story. mr.jforbush must be a real class act. and who would of guessed jeff is to!!!!! really glad that your wife is doing better.cancer is terrible. my good friend of mine just lost his mother to cancer, and his baby bro is only 12. poor kid.
 
That my friend is an amazing and wonderful story!!
Who cares about any contest...................

Great to know there are still great people in this world.

happy freaking holidays!!!
 
Awesome story. Much thanks for posting it here. Here's wishing you and your wife the best and continued success!

Jeff
 
Great story - good to hear Sally responded well to her treatment and has maintained a good attitude throughout! Best of luck to her getting her strength and stamina back, the chemo for treating breast cancer is pretty brutal, since it's primarily steroid based.

I've had a couple of friends at different times of my life without whom I may not have kept my head above water, and have tried to "pay it forward" ever since.
One of them was back in college: I had an accident and called my buddy because I couldn't drive myself to the hospital - he took me to the hospital and for the next 6 months was there whenever I needed help, and would often just show up to make sure I had food that day, because he could afford it when I couldn't. (about the time I healed up, I got fired for missing too many hours that quarter)

Personally, I think that you should keep whatever it was that Mr Forbush tossed in that box. Just make sure you post a pic of the look on Sally's face when she opens her package and you tell her the story. :)
 
Guys, thanks for the kind words & encouragement. Sally is the real hero here, she just refused to give an inch through this entire ordeal. We laughed, we cried, we fought, but we never gave up. That 300+ post a few weeks ago was brought on by yours truly having to turn in his computer & architectal tools for a dishcloth, vacuum cleaner, laundry detergent, & Windex. She was reading that post & was laughing her head off, probably the first time I had actually heard a heartfelt laugh in months. She piped up & said she bet it wouldn't last another 4 or 5 posts, was losing steam. I told her it would hit 300 posts by the week-end. She said if it did, she would buy me dinner, if not, I had to do the laundry for the next two weeks (which I would have done anyway). So the bet was made, I posted the bet, & the damn thing took off thru the roof thanks to all you great guys. She started reading the last third of the posts & had tears in her eyes at some of the replies. That was like an early Christmas gift to me listening to her make her sideline comments & everyone trying to get it to 300 . . . :)
I have to be honest, before this happened to us, I myself never really knew or saw the world around her & I, kind of tunnel visioned on work, home, work, home, work, etc. But our world is completely different now, and it is for the best.
Thanks again guys, take care of each other.
Be safe.
 
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Guys, thanks for the kind words & encouragement. Sally is the real hero here, she just refused to give an inch through this entire ordeal. We laughed, we cried, we fought, but we never gave up. That 300+ post a few weeks ago was brought on by yours truly having to turn in his computer & architectal tools for a dishcloth, vacuum cleaner, laundry detergent, & Windex. She was reading that post & was laughing her head off, probably the first time I had actually heard a heartfelt laught in months. She piped up & said she bet it wouldn't last another 4 or 5 posts, was losing steam. I told her it would hit 300 posts by the week-end. She said if it did, she would buy me dinner, if not, I had to do the laundry for the next two weeks (which I would have done anyway). So the bet was made, I posted the bet, & the damn thing took off thru the roof thanks to all you great guys. She started reading the last third of the posts & had tears in her eyes at some of the replies. That was like an early Christmas gift to me listening to her make her sideline comments & everyone trying to get it to 300 . . . :)
I have to honest, before this happened to us, I myself never really knew or saw the world around her & I, kind of tunnel visioned on work, home, work, home, work, etc. But our world is completely different now, and it is for the best.
Thanks again guys, take care of each other.
Be safe.

I am glad that we could help bring a smile to your faces. I am glad that your wife fought a heroic battle and is well on the road to recovery. She is lucky to have your support. Congratulations. What wonderful news. :thumbup:

Cancer has consistently been a menace in my life. My younger cousin, Caitlin, was diagnosed with a malignant brain tumor and passed away at the age of 8. That was incredibly difficult for my family. My aunt has started a non-profit charity in her honor, and it's a very neat thing. If you're interested, visit:

http://www.caitlins-smiles.org

My uncle was also diagnosed with lung cancer, a battle that he fought for quite some time but is now a survivor.

More recently, my girlfriend's father was diagnosed with colo-rectal cancer and has been valiantly fighting the battle. And most recently, my girlfriend had a tumor removed from her jaw line but is now cancer-free without any further treatments.

I pray that someday they will find a cure, but until then we must offer our support and consideration for those that are fighting to survive. Count your blessings this holiday season!

Great to hear your story, Just1Mor, truly awesome. God bless and take care.

KATN,

Wade
 
Hey,

Awesome stuff there Just1Mor. You and your good wife keep taking good care of each other. Huge respect to Jforbush, good show sir! Just all around good stuff here.

God bless all,
Adam
 
Awesome Story! I am glad to hear your Wife is doing good. I went through the same thing with my Mother this year. She had to go through Radiation and Chemo. She just finished her last treatments. She is the strongest person I know cause I took it harder than she did and it was with her determination to beat breast cancer that gave me strength. After the shock wore off I decided I was going to be strong for her. I am glad to say she beat the cancer and is on the road to recovering and getting her strength back.
 
Awesome Story! I am glad to hear your Wife is doing good. I went through the same thing with my Mother this year. She had to go through Radiation and Chemo. She just finished her last treatments. She is the strongest person I know cause I took it harder than she did and it was with her determination to beat breast cancer that gave me strength. After the shock wore off I decided I was going to be strong for her. I am glad to say she beat the cancer and is on the road to recovering and getting her strength back.

Mike, you know what that stuff can do first hand. Just stay strong for your mom & be there when she needs you. Chemo is some nasty stuff, & I really don't think anyone knows all the side effects from it. Sally's hair is just now starting to come back in, is two different colors now, neither of them was her original color . . . :D
Good luck, & tell your mother we wish her the best & will keep her in our prayers as well.
Be safe.
 
its great to hear that karma is really helping you and your wife. I can only imagine how wonderful it was to hear that she had beaten cancer; it takes the lives of oh, too many people. Congratulations!
 
Mike,

You make sure to be there for your mom as much as you can. All you who are dealing with this stuff keep your spirits up. Be smart about your treatments. My mom made it 18yrs after her diagnosis.

God bless,
Adam
 
glad to hear she's on the mend!

my dad was diagnosed with an invasive form of bladder cancer this summer, after several tests and consultations, he had his bladder removed in october. thankfully, his lymph nodes and surrounding tissue came back negative, so he avoided the chemo and radiation, the surgery alone took such a toll, i'm not sure he would have survived chemo. cancer sucks!
 
Reading this actually brought some tears to my eyes.
It's so awesome that there are people out there that still care about each other and help them out without asking for something in return.

Your wife sounds like a great person, you are a lucky man to have her, and she is a lucky woman to have someone like you that is there for her.
 
Brings a joy to your heart reading such a great story. My best wishes go out to Sally and yourself. Both of you have fought valiantly to beat this and have come out winners. The future will be good for both of you now. Sally is a "keeper" in my book. Hold onto her tightly.
 
It's dark...and I am typing via tiny flashlight around my neck...

That was a great read J1M, always good to read a great story like that.

Merry Christmas to you and Sally,to Jforbush, and to all.
 
JUST1MORE, I am truly happy for both you and your wife.

+ Good Karma for Mr. JForBush, that was an extremely kind thing to do.

I wish Sally a speedy recovery, and happy holidays to all.
 
there ain't no "strangers" here, all the regulars here are friends of a sort, if not extended family.

cancer is an evil bitch and many people are touched by it in one way or another over our lives.

wishing the best for you and your wife, and everyone else here this holiday season and in the coming year.
 
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