how to win friends and influence knifemaking - maybe

Matthew Gregory

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I really don't know why I'm posting this, as the ones that most desperately need to read it are going to handily dismiss it - it's been proven again and again that this is how it works. I'm hoping, however, that maybe - just maybe - a new maker will read this, and perhaps it will get them to critically consider the advice or instruction they've observed here, and understand how the internet has a magical way of attributing mastery to folks that probably don't deserve it.


Over the course of the years I've participated in the ShopTalk area, I've seen a lot of faces come and go. Some of them leaving were a good thing, or perhaps for the best, while others are a sore loss to this community. Many left in frustration, and part of the reason for their exit is an obvious one: credibility. There's a disturbing trend here that seems to allow for voices to crowd the stage that have EVERYTHING to say, on damn near any topic, without ever providing a single shred of proof, even when asked for it - nicely, or not.

Here are some of my thoughts. I'm sure many will dismiss them, as it appears they ALWAYS dismiss outside information, but perhaps this will allow newer folks to ponder a bit on WHO they're accepting their information from.

If you're suggesting that you have an improved process for something, provide an example. An actual, real-life, concrete EXAMPLE of what you're talking about. I genuinely don't give a shit if you've done something for x number of years - that in itself isn't proof of anything. I've known my fair share of assholes that have done it WRONG for forty years, and the only thing this demonstrates is their inability to accept better information, or perhaps shows an ignorance beyond my comprehension. It CERTAINLY does not imply mastery! If your work is displayed for all to see, the public can decide for themselves whether or not your position is worth any merit. The same holds true for everyone, btw - I'm not just pointing a finger at the 'old regime'. Just the opposite, in fact - some of the guys I'm seeing with the biggest opinions are new makers!!!

Explain yourself in detail. If you're making a claim, the onus falls upon you to explain your claim. To quote the Marquis de Laplace, "The weight of evidence for an extraordinary claim must be proportioned to its strangeness." If you can't manage to state HOW you're doing something, how the heck can you expect anyone to take you seriously? WHY should anyone take you seriously?

This isn't about any single, specific incident. In fact, I see countless examples of what I'm talking about right now in ShopTalk on the first page of threads. It's not about heat treat, or grinding, or who makes the best machine, or the best finishing technique, or who drove the best goddamn car this morning - it's about ALL of these things.

Too often I see guys answering questions on here with bold positions. Some of them are guys that I can't find a single example of work from. How the hell is that even possible?!?!?!?! There are some GIANTS that provide information with examples of their work darn near everywhere, and I've witnessed THEIR statements trampled by yahoos that haven't once ever proven that they can do anything other than 'talk the talk'. There are guys that have thousands and thousands of posts - in a few cases, more posts than Spark. You know, Spark - the guy that owns Bladeforums. Many of these guys have yet to post a single good example of their work - something that would allow for a degree of scrutiny, showing the details they claim to maintain. How can this be?

I understand that there are some guys here that intentionally post under pseudonyms, as it liberates them to say things that perhaps might cause trouble for their real existence. I get it. There's few enough of them, or perhaps even guys that aren't knifemakers but that have great input, for their participation to be accepted and weighed as it will. The rest of us should offer the ShopTalk community a bit of respect and PROVE that you do what you say, or perhaps consider refraining from offering an opinion until you CAN make your point with an example.


My goal isn't to dissuade people from sharing - just the opposite! I WANT you to share your work!!!! I WANT you to show who you are!!!! The critical thing here, though, is to explain how and why you do something, and show what the results are. ALL OF US benefit when you do. The best input from folks usually starts with "this may or may not be the right way, but this is how I do it" - then they SHOW how they do it. I'm not asked to take anyone's word for it. I wouldn't expect anyone to take my word for anything, either.


I DON'T HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS. In fact, I'm about twelve or thirteen years into this ride, and the longer I continue the less I realize I understand. What I do understand, though, is just how much bullshit is allowed to propagate from people that regurgitate what they've heard, as if it's what they've achieved. Maybe they have! I couldn't say - they've never provided proof. Even when asked for it. Suspicious, no?

It's up to the individual to decide what he reads here is right or not, or whether the information they've found is credible, but it should be up to the provider of information to exemplify what they're promoting. I wonder why more people don't insist on this...
 
I won't argue with any of that.
One of the things that I like about you Matthew, is that you actually care.
 
I was thinking about this just a day or two ago Matt. Like it or not, good, bad, or indifferent, Shop Talk is much different than it was just a few short years ago. If you think some of the claims are bad here, you should see some of the claims being made on facebook & instagram. Pure fertilizer.
It seems you can't ask a question without getting several pages of, "well I HEARD that it should be done this way". Lately, when I have a question, I usually give another trusted maker a call. I know other makers are doing this as well. When I do ask a question in Shop Talk, I always be sure to include that I want answers from someone who ACTUALLY HAS experience on the topic I'm asking about.
I know you have to keep an open mind or we would all still think the world is flat but some of the ideas that are being tossed around are pure..........well you know what I mean.
I also fully agree about the more I learn the less I actually know. "What we know is a drop, what we don't know is an ocean." - Isaac Newton. It scares me to know that people can start making knives and 6 months later they think they know more than people that were doing before they were born.
 
@Matt Gregory:

^^^ :thumbup:

Great post. I like your style buddy!
 
To start, I do not post here much, if at all. The reason why is listed here...
"Too often I see guys answering questions on here with bold positions. Some of them are guys that I can't find a single example of work from. How the hell is that even possible?!?!?!?! There are some GIANTS that provide information with examples of their work darn near everywhere, and I've witnessed THEIR statements trampled by yahoos that haven't once ever proven that they can do anything other than 'talk the talk'. There are guys that have thousands and thousands of posts - in a few cases, more posts than Spark. You know, Spark - the guy that owns Bladeforums. Many of these guys have yet to post a single good example of their work - something that would allow for a degree of scrutiny, showing the details they claim to maintain. How can this be?"
I see guys like Don Hanson, Karl Andersen just to name TWO and others who make knives everyday to keep the lights on get shouted down. By folks that make a few knives a year. Other highly regarded makers who were here regularly wont come within a mile of this place. I see others who can regurgitate the heat treating book word for word but send what few knives they make out for heat treating. I see 2 page arguments on grinders and or designs of grinders that most haven't even seen in real life....and to say it again, when i google to find a man/womans work just to see what they are making...nothing, zilch.. I was brought up by old guys in the tool and die industry where questions were tolerated, barley. You shut your yapper and learned. Mostly by doing. I've walked knife shows and talked to makers with YEARS in the game and if you listened, they would tell you all you needed to know and only asked you let them know how it worked out. Questions are good, but it befuddles me when guys that have been making for years get run out by folks that dont know shit, except what they have read, in comparison....and Salem, mad respect for you. I have watched your journey for years now building your shop and processes. You learn and do. thats tops...Matthew, thanks for putting this out there.
 
Thanks for posting this Matt.

In the 16+ years I have been a member of this forum (and other completely unrelated industry-specific online discussion groups), I have found that those who know the least, usually know it the loudest. Meanwhile those who have the greatest knowledge and experience often temper their remarks with a great deal of humility and understanding.

Indeed, the best advice is usually prefaced with comments like "this is just one of many ways you can do this, and many of you may already have a better way, but I have found that this is what works for me..." while the worst advice generally sounds something like "do it this way. Period."

The good advice is backed up with genuine experience, pictures, links, or real empirical data, while the bad advice is usually something instantly recognizable as simply being repeated from another forum post or a youtube video. And half the time these "pass-it-on" tidbits have their meaning completely lost to contextual or translation errors, like in that game "telephone" some of us used to play when we were kids ;)

A lot of newcomers are very eager to be accepted by their mentors and role models, and may try to gain acceptance and respect by demonstrating their own (recently acquired) knowledge, but when they do so too liberally or too forcefully they invariably betray their own ignorance and lack of experience, which ultimately has the opposite effect than intended.

If you truly want to learn, you talk less and listen more; write less and make more, and if its acceptance and respect you want from this group, then EARN IT.

And for those who are genuinely learning, who are researching, investigating, and showing respect and gratitude towards those who are helping them find the answers, I say thank you! You're doing it right! But beware of the self-appointed experts who claim so much, but offer so little...
 
Matt does indeed really care about knife making, upping his own craft, and helping others get it figured out. I owe that guy a huge debt of gratitude for the help and critique he has given me. And I couldn't agree more with the things he has to say today. This place, shoptalk in particular, has been an invaluable resource, but at the same time, a source of mild frustration. It's very hard for myself to call someone out and say, "Hey, how did you come to that conclusion?", even tho I know they're dead wrong, so maybe I've allowed things to slip by, mis-info or dis-info, all in the name of not wanting to ruffle feathers. But that is not the right approach. Edmund Burke came up with one of my favorite sayings, allow me to modify it slightly here......"All it takes for the wrong info to prevail is for learned men to say nothing." I'm thankful Matt said what he said, I hope it is received with the spirit it was written in. He cares. He really really cares.
 
The wonderful thing about being human is that your brain has a built in edit function. The majority of the information that I see on here is pretty good. I just edit out the questionable stuff. The GOOD thing about this forum as opposed to a couple of other specialized ones is that folks on here don't assume that you general fact based knowledge that you have picked up from both people who know what they are talking about and personal experience over the years is crap because you haven't shown yourself to be an "expert' in their chosen niche. On here, if you have something useful to say, it is typically taken as advice and not some attempt to steal someone's thunder or somehow diminish their own self perceived/claimed expertise.
 
jdm, your brain's edit function improves along with your own knowledge of the subject.

Those just starting out, however, have not yet acquired the base knowledge to be able to apply effective filters.

Heck even I have *almost* been fooled on more than one occasion by an internet know-it-all who speaks with enough conviction to sound convincing
 
True, but the great thing about BFC is that you are generally not belittled even if others are secretly rolling their eyes because you are a new guy asking a question that has been asked a hundred times. The worst thing that might happen to you is that you will be required to the fairly extensive resources that are on this forum. We also have a LOT of information and experienced people on here, so you can compare opinions. I notice that you said that you ALMOST fell for some fairy tales. How did you figure out that they weren't legit?
jdm, your brain's edit function improves along with your own knowledge of the subject.

Those just starting out, however, have not yet acquired the base knowledge to be able to apply effective filters.

Heck even I have *almost* been fooled on more than one occasion by an internet know-it-all who speaks with enough conviction to sound convincing
 
Matthew, good read and holds true to almost every forum I've ever participated in on any subject. I feel fortunate as I haven't experienced it here (yet), but I'm sure as time passes I will as I hope to be in this for the long run. I keep my posts to asking questions with regards to knife making as I know so little and have almost no experience. I will comment when someone shows their work and comment only in a positive way, if it's something I don't personally like I will just keep it to myself, unless of course they are specifically asking for the latter to see what people like, but currently have even held back on that as I would prefer for people here to get to know me before I offer much opinion. If it is something I do have experience with, I will offer my experience only if I can back it with actual experience. I thank those here who post with genuine knowledge as I'm learning I have only begun the chip away at crumbs of what I believe I will learn over the years to come.
 
Joe, I think you're missing the point of my post. This isn't about dissuading newcomers from participating. It's about asking anyone - ANYONE - to put their money where their mouth is. I don't have any interest in shutting anyone down. I just want them to show me that they know what they're talking about.
 
Asking questions is not the issue. It's answering those questions that requires real knowledge, experience, and credibility.
 
I think if the posters who make statements about the best way to do something would show a photograph of the technique and a photograph of the result then I would be more apt to consider the approach. Usually there are a couple different methods to accomplish a task and it helps if the poster has tried more than one method before declaring which is best. If you want to be credible then show me the photo of your finished knife so I can be the judge of your methods. In short more photo evidence and less unsupported conjecture. Larry

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Matthew, I agree. Pictures should be shown in order to establish credibility. If someone has a special method of finishing a knife handle, don't just talk about it, show a picture. There are those on this forum who talk a lot but never show a picture of their work.
 

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Well said my friend.
I would also add, that it is up to people to research the person who is giving said advice before they take it as gospel.
I learned this craft (still learning!) via the internet, there is a lot of crap to sort through. But if you are willing to invest the time, pretty much every answer to all your questions have been answered already, in detail, multiple times.
 
Hey Hoss, I don't think there's a single bracket that can be pointed to. Perhaps my wording wasn't right, as I didn't mean to imply one or another. I find bullshit spouting from all age groups, and walks of life, and levels of expertise. :D


It's not the new guys or the old timers, it's the middle comers that have all the answers.

Hoss
 
Matthew, I have to laugh a some of the "wisdom" I have read here this year like: "forge quenching tanks should be aligned with true North" and "440C makes terrible knives". I'm sure the members can remember some other gems also. We can only hope that the posters in future will offer real advice based on real experience with successful results....but I'm not holding my breath. Larry
 
Hey Hoss, I don't think there's a single bracket that can be pointed to. Perhaps my wording wasn't right, as I didn't mean to imply one or another. I find bullshit spouting from all age groups, and walks of life, and levels of expertise. :D

You took some good jabs at the new and old guys, I thought you were a little weak on the middle comers, just trying to help.

I do recommend that everone find a mentor to discuss ideas with. There are many methods to make knives. If you mix them all together, it will be hard to make good knives.

Hoss
 
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