I can't believe this - I'm not only angry, but I'm extremely disappointed.

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Hi Mike,

I know that one of the dealers on the Forums was recently banned for dishonorable activities. I don't know exactly what that activity was, because the post was edited, but it apparently involved one dealer trying to undermine another dealer. From my viewpoint as a customer, I want to be able to trust the dealers here on the Forums. And I do.

But now, doubts have been raised as to the ethics of all the players by statements made here. I would like to know "what was done to Mike" and who did it. And what "3 specific manufacturers" do you suspect of planning to cause trouble for you? How and why?

We, the people that you and the dealers here depend on, deserve to know exactly what is going on. Both (or all) sides, no BS, no double entendre, and out in the open. I don't expect anyone to reveal any "Secret numbers". But, right now we have you, dealers, and manufacturers accused of improprieties and questionable activities. Quite frankly, if someone is doing something unethical, I don't want to deal with them. But, it isn't fair to all of the uninvolved dealers and manufacturers to be placed under suspicion by not naming those being accused or suspected of these activities.

Mike, dealers, manufacturers, please use this opportunity to deal with this unpleasant situation in a positive, open manner. Cancel the attitudes and just deal with the facts and logistics of what has been done, and what needs to be done. Obviously, some have more at risk than others, but we are all part of something that is good for each of us. And between all 5000+ members, I'm sure we can find a solution that benefits everyone.

Thanks, and nothing but the best to all of you.
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Two more weeks. Two more weeks. Two more weeks and my sebenza will be here! Yayyyyy.

Ya know, a year ago I didn't know a sebenza from a mercedes benza. Thanks BF!

BTW, is this thread still going, and going, and going...I smell bunny pooh.

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz snore.

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Columbo,

The three manufacturers who are not "net friendly" are fairly obvious. I can not mention them directly because two of them are currently using lawyers to express themselves (Not aimed directly at me, but indirectly I am affected) Hint, ABC-Direct is now shut down partly because of two of them. I am in communication with the President of the third and maybe some good can come out of this. That is all I can say for now. I hope you understand.

I will let this thread stay open but it is getting to be self replicating.

I made a decsion and I know it was the right one.

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Mike,

Understood. Good luck.

Thanks

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Dave
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Kevin, did you realy read the whole post or did you just key on the parts that pissed you off?

If anyone depended on this site for their bread and butter, yet wasn't willing to pay the $50 per month "bargain" to advertise in the "the biggest knife show in the world, in cyberspace" (your words); then I'm sorry, but I'm not exactly going to be dripping with sympathy.

That's pretty much what I said, or tried to. In fact, in the whole first part of the post, I thought that I had made it pretty clear that I understood what you did and why. That wasn't the problem, as I saw it. You did what you had to do.

I hadn't read the post that you referred to indicating that you gave plenty of warning but, come on, three weeks? You call that sufficient notice. I call it a bolt from the blue.

That wasn't a warning it was an ultimatum. It wasn't saying "Hey guys we hate to this" and why. That was more in the line of "AWRIGHT PAY UP. YOUSE GUYS HAVE HAD IT TOO EASY TOO LONG". That's how I read I anyway and, if I read it that way, you can bet some of the others did too.

Did you and Mike try E-mailing the affected parties and explain? I don't mean going to the whole membership but it's pretty obvious who the consistent players are over there. You could have done that. Did you? And, before you ask "why should we?", well, if you have to ask, you wouldn't understand. It has to do with courtesy and good business.

Dennis, did you have a banner? No? Hmmmm.... Did you rush to get one, when we announced that the Dealer forum would be for advertisers only? No? Hmmmmm.... oh wait, you don't have a website. Hey, no problem, I'd be more than happy to give you your own page here on BladeForums.com, I've offered that in the past as well... but I didn't see *anyone* take us up on it.

I told you in my post that I don't have a banner and why. I don't have need for a banner in this market. I don't have anything to advertize. What's the point of saying "CLICK HERE" when there is nothing to click on? That being the case, why would I rush to get one when you announced the new policy? I didn't see the "announcement". I don't play on the dealer's forum, remember? How would I have seen it if I don't spend any time there? If I don't spend time there, why would I want a banner? Also, considering the debacle over there these last few days, why would I want to? A debacle, I might add, if not perpetrated by, certainly exacerbated by the appearance of 1SKS.

As for your offering "free web pages", I don't recall seeing that or hearing of any such offer but, as someone once said on here, I can't read all of the posts. Not that it's likely that I would have taken you up on it. Why should I? As I said, this is not my market. Besides, no one else took you up on it either. I wonder why?

Yet you have the audacity to claim that you were "sandbagged" and that we weren't acting like men by doing what we had to do?

Again, you misread, or read into the post what you wanted to. I never said that I was sandbagged. How could I be if I don't post on the dealer's forum? Since I don't play in there I'm not affected. Also, where did I say that you didn't do enough to improve your situation?

What I did say was that it was easy to see how those who were complaining could have come to the conclusion that they had been sandbagged. They were led in and set up then hit with unexpected charges and broken promises. If that isn't being sandbagged, it's a pretty good imitation. It's easy to see why they squawked and that was the whole point of my post. If you see that as acting "holier than thou", so be it.

Again, just so you understand, I was not complaining about the steps you had to take. Other than you and Mike, swinging a broad brush, calling all of us freeloaders, leeches and deadbeats simply because we wouldn't buy your goods, you did what you had to do. Right? It doesn't really bother me that much. If I'm not selling off that forum, what do I have to complain about?

Us armchair quarterbacks can only cast stones and watch you sink slowly into the mire. (If you piss enough people off that's a real possibility.)

After all, we're nothing but a bunch of freeloaders, leeches and deadbeats. Right?

As to lifting a finger to help, help what? Is this a charity or a business? If it's a business, what would you expect me, or any other businessman, to do? Especially when you are in direct competition with us? (The banner advertizers much more than me.)
Should we sacrifice our own resources to ensure your survival, when your goal is to dominate and control our entire market? Do we seem that foolish?

But then, we're a bunch of freeloaders, leeches and deadbeats. Right?

Did you come to us and ask for help? You could have done a conference or something and tried to get us dealers all together (We have a forum specifically for that purpose) and lay it out and ask for suggestions and, yes, even help. Instead, we are regaled with tales of how You guys have all the "secrets" and knowledge and how you have clawed your way up from one table at a flea market to a multi-million dollar entrepeneur and for a "mere $1000.00" per head you will show us all how to "have it all" Does that sound like a business or organization that needs help? No wonder we weren't knocking your door down to help.

But then we're just a bunch of freeloaders, leeches and deadbeats. Right?

Actually, I do have an idea, or two that might help, and for a "mere $1000.00" I can .....Nah! Why bother?

We're just a bunch of freeloaders, leeches and deadbeats.

However, I do like the idea that someone came up with about doing some classified advertizing. I think it came from one of us freeloaders, leeches or deadbeats. (Not me. I wish it had.) I would even consider participating in that program. That is if I haven't been kicked off of here by then.

I also never said that you were taking money and giving back nothing. I know the value of this site and appreciate it as much as the next person. However, it is a business and I still find it incredible that you have people sending in donations.

At least they're not freeloaders, leeches and deadbeats.

Just for the record, I've always had a policy of treating people fairly and honestly and taking them at their word. I believe in helping someone when they are in trouble. I also believe in not meddling in the affairs of others. If I am not directly asked for help, then I will stay back and out of the way. Too many times in my earlier life I tried to help folks who either didn't want help or didn't think they needed it. I paid a price for that and learned some painful lessons from it. I will help all I can if asked, but you must ask. If you don't, then I figure you are doing ok and don't need it.

If that makes me a freeloader, a leech and a deadbeat, so be it.

If you haven't figured it out by now, I am not "beating you up" for doing what you had to do. I understand that. I am pissed, though, that you had the audacity (your word) to denigrate and vilify those of us who, for one reason or another, failed to see your plight and step in and bail your sorry asses out. It's a two way street, Kevin. If you want help, ASK. Don't blast us for not reading your mind or picking up on your hints.

I also never said that you weren't acting like men, wherever that came from!

As for your interest in MY manhood, Kevin, these days you're pretty much free to swing the way you want. However, my wife and I are pretty much comfortable with the way things are. No thanks.

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Dennis Wright
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Again, Dennis, you are wrong, on several accounts. Your own advice would be well followed - read all of my posts, not just the parts that piss you off.

  • I can't count the number of times where we've said "Hey, we need to make BladeForums.com pay for itself". We've asked for solutions and suggestions at all times, and besides the ones that don't work ("Charge for Signatures!", "Give custom Member Titles!"), we haven't gotten any that will actually fly.
  • I never called all dealers leeches, deadbeats, and freeloaders. Just the ones that make money off this site without contributing anything in return, and I was pretty specific about that. I'd say that's a pretty apt analogy, what would you call them?

    If you misread that, or misinterpreted that to mean any and all dealers, including the ones that advertise with us, that's your fault - try reading more carefully.

    BTW, Patrick agrees with me that we should have cut off the non paying dealers from selling in the Dealers forum. So would, I'll bet, most of the advertisers.
  • I also publically thanked the dealers that had been advertising since the beginning, for their support and for doing the right thing. Guess you didn't read that either.
  • I'd call 3 weeks plenty of warning. It's more than fair... and there were plenty of responses that kept that thread visible. If someone got caught unaware, again, I'm not exactly dripping with sympathy for those who make money off this site without giving anything in return.

    Just how much warning would you have given them? 2 months? A year? Sorry, Dennis, but when your prices go up, do you give your customers more than 3 weeks warning? Or even any warning at all? Or do you just raise your prices? That's what I thought.

    We warned non paying Dealers. If that wasn't enough warning, I'm sorry, but that's life. If someone was counting on a free ride for them to make money to last forever, that's their problem.

I have yet to see a good justification as to why Mike and myself should shoulder the financial burden of keeping this site open, all so some dealer can sell knives here for free. When this site didn't cost $1500 per month to keep open, we could afford to let people make money for free. Unfortunately, that was then, and this is now; we can't continue to do so, and if someone can't be bothered to help support the site they make money from, then that's tough cookies for them.

Dennis, what I'm getting from this is that -
  • You don't have a website
  • You didn't have any sales in the dealer forum
  • You aren't in any way affected by these changes
  • Yet you are complaining about something that doesn't affect or involve you in any way, shape, or form, "defending" those who either A.) Don't deserve it, or B.) Don't need your help, or C.) Need to be contacting us directly so we can work something out with them.

Dennis, I suggest you carefully reread my posts. Read all of them this time. Look for where I specifically called all dealers leeches and parasites, and denigrated / villified (my words), all dealers. Because it's not there.

You essentially called us liars, full of deceit, having planned this from the beginning with secret plans to dominate the market - and that this was a "racket" and we were "taking money for nothing" looking only to cut the throats of the competition.

You make claims like - "Did you stand up like men and admit that there are serious problems? Nope." Yet we've been saying for months that the site needs to pay for itself, and that we're trying everything we could to make it work. (BTW, I'd say that's questioning manhood.)

So, Dennis, if you wonder just why I'm pissed (your words) at you, maybe you should reexamine your position and reread your posts. Carefully this time.

For someone who claims that
I also believe in not meddling in the affairs of others. If I am not directly asked for help, then I will stay back and out of the way.
You are taking a pretty active role in something that you admittedly aren't involved in. And if one of the dealers involved asked for your help, then why didn't you direct them our way, so we could have discussed this?

All of this because you couldn't be bothered to read carefully. Thanks, I appreciate the headache. Next time you decide to get hot and bothered about something, make sure you reread it first. It should save both of us.

Spark

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And with that, This huge thread is closed. Feel free to open another if I have missed something but it looks like the horse is not only dead but it has gone beyond that.

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