Hey Ankerson, I think you missed the point I was trying to make. I wasnt saying women spend money on all sorts of stupid things, I am saying that each partner will have different ideas of the value of something. She doesnt understand why I might want a 100 dollar knife and I dont understand some of the things she thinks are worth 100$. I really dont need a $100 knife, she doesnt need expensive shampoo but we realize that it is important to the other person and that is all we need to know. It is really not a pissing match over who has the more rational or justifiable excuse for luxury commodities. And yes you could get money back for your fancy knives when you sell them but mostly only if you dont use them. And if you dont use them do you really need them? Tonight when I go to bed and curl up next to my wife, I will think of you curling up to your utilitarian, possibly useful, likely overbuilt but definitely not warm strider. But hey whatever works for you, if knives bring you the joy that my family has brought me then more power to you. If knives could make me as happy as she has, I probably would have stuck to knives.
You touched on something interesting. I recall the day my brother in law essentially hit the lottery at work and was suddenly a millionaire. He went out and bought a very nice sports car, one so nice that I was afraid to drive it. I did get behind the wheel once on the freeway in Los Angeles and it was like playing pole position. Like every car on the freeway was in slow motion, and I was water pouring through the open channels. What an exhilarating feeling.
My sister went out a month later and bought a very expensive SUV and took a class in off road driving. I believe once she jumped a curb, and that's as far as she ever took it off road. She said since HE bought a nice car, SHE deserved a nice car. What crap.
As it turned out he had a nice car he really liked and a wife with bad judgment that he couldn't rein in, who cost him many tens of thousands of dollars hiring plant consultants and putting their dogs in doggy day care while she went shopping.
Guess what happened when the money went away?
At least he still had the car.
At least you guys still have your knives. There's worse things in life than pride in a fine collection of nice tools. They really are beautiful.