I'm certainly not going to be overly open when you begin you communication with me by saying that I'm overreacting to my situation. Why go there? I've responded appropriately and calmly and now, due to your insightful posts as well as others, we've learned something about the steps that can be taken to deal with stinky knives.
I apologize for that, it was certainly a mis statement on my part. What I meant is that I don't think it's irreparable (at least let's hope not), it could have been worse (people get all kinds of bad luck dealing online, and we've all seen some terrible dealings here on BF), and in my opinion you're certainly dealing with an extreme case here. My aunt smokes, and I picked up a few odd habits from her after I had asked her "why do you do this?" She blows smoke into the sky (even when she's outside), she washes her hands constantly, and she doesn't touch the cigarette with her fingers when she draws on it. It's the small things like that (and possibly the brand of cigarettes she smokes) that keep cigarette odor out of her life. I dated a girl for 8 months that didn't know I smoked, and never used cologne - I did brush my teeth a lot and carry chewing gum though (I also smoked a lot less during that time), and the fact that I was able to hide something so prevailing for so long was a factor in the breakup. I have also met people that flat out reek of cigarettes. Their clothes, hair, breath, just everything about them. I don't know why one person does so badly and the next person doesn't (could be smoking habits, volume, environment, brand, or a bit of everything) but I have met the type of person that could make a bottle of perfume smell like a carton of winstons set on fire.
I know you're upset considering the money you've spent, but let's hope it is not something that ends up being permanent. There was a good bit of information shared here, and it will definitely come up again. Good luck with whatever you choose to do to address the problem.
.....as for my fire, it was actually the best thing that happened to me in several years in a roundabout way. It helped me clear out some junk (I had to be selective about the items that were important to me), it got me out of a bad living situation, and the changes I was forced to make has allowed me to buy more nicer things that I will certainly miss more in the next house fire than what I lost in the last one. The smoke damage was the bulk of it, and a couple events made it so a lot of the things I wanted to keep weren't damaged as badly (the mix of doors that were open and closed in my house at the time protected some rooms, stifled the fire in the room it started in, and allowed the firemen to reach the actual fire quickly and unimpeded while keeping them from searching a lot of areas that would have wasted time - circumstances couldn't have worked out better) and a few of my most important possessions were actually with me (Laptop and Camera). No persons were injured, and it gave me some good perspective; I was a single male with a manageable amount of resources - what if I had a family and kids, nowhere to go, or even a woman would have had a much harder time replacing her clothes. Better me than someone else. All is well that ends well. Win/Wn
