Jody, First the important stuff.....Your ma is in our prayers and we will pray that her doctors are "inspired" while she is in their care! She has to stay positive and battle!
Secondly...divorces suck while you are going thru them, but there is a reason for them and a reward in the end! You are done with that mistake and move on with life!! As your ma's experience is/SHOULD be showing us, LIFE IS PRESCIOUS and can change in a flash! Dont sweat the small chit and your life will be better for it! Sorry if I got too personal, but I really feel for you man! Been thru both and I lived thru them to be a better and happier guy! Keep your head up and help your ma keep hers up as well!