kel_aa said:
Hello John-
I see it as a tougher call than that. It is horrible to threaten the safety of someone [as the muggers did, especially a pregnant woman?]. But I fault the society that allows this to happen as well. That makes people this desperate/crazyed for thrill/mentally dead or whatever reason. Didn't we fail to prevent them and fail the people they harmed/potentially harmed?
For the sake of discussion, if you had a crystal ball and could see two futures: one where you gave up whatever you had on you (snip...) and both walked away (Snip)and another where you resist and end up killing the mugger, which would you choose? Of course we actually do the things we do without knowing the outcome. But I can say that there is nothing that fits in my pockets or hangs around my neck that is worth a human life, as low as it may sink to.
Kelvin (thanks for bringing it to a personal level)
Howdy, Kelvin -
I appreciate your position.
I am a very spiritual person, myself. I believe that we are all experiencing this life together. I also believe that there are people in the world who do not believe as I do. And I am reminded of that daily, and I accept that - it keeps me centered. I believe that I am responsible for my actions. And that I am responsible for helping others as I and my beliefs allow.
And I believe that I am not responsible for the decisions others make in their path through life - no more than I hold another responsible for my decisions. I offer guidance if asked, support if needed, but I am not their external conscience.
I will offer that 'Society' implies civilized coexistance for a common good. With society comes understood and implied social behavior and norms. When someone violates these acceptable behaviors, they are acting in an anti-social and / or uncivilized manner. Whether that is a concious or subconsious decision on the anti-social's part, I did not make that decision for them. Perhaps I could/can influence that decision, however, ultimately, I cannot make that decision for them. I am human as well.
I disagree that society causes people to mentally ill. That we'll have to reserve for another conversation.
I'll sum up by saying that I want to be altruistic and for everyone to get along. Unfortunately, before I got here on Earth, somebody tossed an apple in the punchbowl, and things haven't been the same since...
PS - The deceased attacker was not pregnant, the autopsy showed... perhaps a publicity stunt, or simple mistake on the poor family's part.
PPS - I carry few things in my pocket worth a human life. There are people that travel with me at times, however, that my life is worth. So, I guess the short answer is 'Yes' - it is a tough decision, truly one that I don't get to make on my own... But a decision that I prepare for just the same.
Respectfully,
John