I guess the idea was for people to read this and have something to think about. A lot of people here do know what they like and why they like it. Some people are just getting into it and may be overwhelmed by the choices of steel out there, often thinking they have a crap knife because it's 440C. I'm not saying anyone is an idiot for having a $500 custom in S110V just as no one is an idiot for liking a knife in AUS8 if that works for them.
I think you're on to something.
My sense is that there are 4 basic types of knife buyers and 3 basic groups of steels.
In the center are users. They use their knives regularly enough to dull them and they're willing to learn the basics of knife sharpening. This type of buyer is well served by a balanced steel that combines reasonable edge retention, toughness and ease of sharpening. Carbon steel like 1095 does this well as do some stainless steels like 420hc, Sandvik 12c27 and maybe Aus8.
The second group treats knives as either disposable or as a novelty. They aren't going to learn to sharpen and they'll just use a dull knife till they loose or destroy it. For them, cheap stainless is perfect.
The third group is willing to spend money on nice knives but they aren't going to commit to learning to sharpen. For them, a steel that can hold an edge is important, more than ease of sharpening. Super steels are for them, provided they can get some org to sharpen them
The last group are the sharpeners. They commit to getting more than ok at sharpening. They have the tools, skills and ability to put an edge on any steel. They are likely to choose the steel for the job, including super steels.