Paul,
I will have to disagree with you on various points of your post. Unfortunately, you justify and condone his actions and that won't fly here any longer. People have been patient with Ryan, they've simply asked for communication and in return they have been ignored and promises have been broken.
First of all, a business man asking for payment via gift is shady. You are surrendering your only protection. Unfortunately the cost of doing business should fall on the service provider. Processing their payment for services should be on them, not the customer.
I don't understand how you can be so understanding getting the run around and being lied to? I'd be mad as hell if someone kept shooting lies in my direction. That is a sign of a poor business ethic if nothing else, something that doesn't get you far in this community. People have very long memories, they might forgive but forgetting is quite different.
I'm not sure what your intent is saying that you hope he is alright, at the cost of your property and that of others, but that isn't going to sit well with others either. Maybe you can volunteer to return everyone's money if you believe in him so much. In my view, his age makes no difference. If someone is man enough to take someones money, they need to man enough to follow through and complete the deals you make and own up to his mistakes. Take responsibility for your short comings and not blame them on things that have nothing to do with them, that is the measure of a business man.
If this is a case of biting off more than one can chew, then ignoring the problem won't make it go away. The rules of business apply to everyone equally, there is no exceptions made for age. That is pure BS and I truly hope you aren't buying it.