Happy Final Friday in May!
My son and I played hooky a couple Friday’s ago and met my brother up in Gettysburg. We had breakfast at this great little diner - the Gettysburg Family Restaurant - where I bought this mug. It's smaller than most mugs/coffee cups used in American society today - more like what I remember my grandparents drinking out of in their kitchens and at diners. And I like it. For the nostalgia, and for the smaller serving sizes. I can have a few cups of tea scattered throughout the day instead of feeling I need to limit myself to one larger cup in the morning, with maybe a second in the evening.
This Buck 112 Ranger in Koa wood and 440C was riding in my pocket that day as we toured the battlefield. Upon entering the bookshop/museum building, the young lady at the door asked if we had any knives. I politely held out my wood and brass Buck. She looked at it, and hesitated, before telling me I could come inside with it, but warned me to keep it in my pocket. There were no signs posted (unless I missed them), nothing saying that they were prohibited, or a certain size limit, etc. Maybe I'm reading her body language completely wrong, but I got the sense that she wasn't supposed to let me in with it. That's not the first time similar things have happened to me. One other such example that sticks out in my head was going into a courthouse to do some genealogy land records research. I knew to leave my pistol and a larger pocket knife in the car, but had a Buck 704 Maverick (gentlemen's knife - single blade slipjoint, wood) in the pocket of my suitcoat. I put it in the basket with my keys, pen, etc. to go through the metal detector. The sheriff deputy looked at it in the basket, paused, seemed to reconsider, and handed it to me, allowing it in. Again, maybe I'm misreading the body language and am completely wrong, but I got the feeling that my little slipjoint was technically prohibited, but he let me keep it.
What's my point here? I'm not sure I have one, just ruminating on my observations over several such examples. Over the past couple of decades my physical appearance has morphed from young, lean, hard-charging Leatherneck, to middle-aged, dad-bod, with graying hair - the ultimate disguise!). My wife and I have four kids - I've spent my fair share of time in hospital emergency rooms, maternity wards, etc. I quickly noticed as a younger husband and father that nurses and doctors talked to me and treated me completely differently based on my attire - even when I spoke and treated them exactly the same regardless of whether I was dressed for lawn and tree work, or was coming from work or church. I started the habit of taking the extra four minutes to change clothes before going to the hospital for any reason - I always wear khaki pants with a tucked in, collared shirt, and a belt. And the nurses, doctors, and staff treat me differently, talk to me in a greater level of medical detail, and give me direct answers to my questions.
Same thing with my pocketknives. I'm collecting more and more data points showing that a traditional, wood and brass/nickel silver, single blade slipjoint or lockback, without pocket clips, thumb-studs, Spydie holes, anodizing, etc. that is carried in a pocket and not clipped to the edge of one, is given a pass far more often than not. Especially when I'm wearing khaki pants, a tucked-in collared shirt, and a belt.
Just my observations that are, to me, interesting.