Para Para Para...hmmm.
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Don, and Richard, I said I emailed folks about Large images in their signature lines. Yes Don, I certainly would have privately emailed a forum member who was using a Large image of the Star of David. I emailed another guy about his use of ALL the smileys as a signature line. His posts were generally only one word. I found it annoying and told him so. I emailed Chang because is large flag was causing serious bandwidth problems. His flag was not offensive in any way. It was simply annoying to have threads refuse to load because his server was down, or slow to respond. So what? How is that WRONG? I do not get it. Calling it being a busy body is ridiculous. I care about how this forum works. Don't you?
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Para, as Kelly pointed out so well, you made many religious referenses regarding this subject. Hey, if somebody makes pictures so big that it hampers forum performance and you are making them aware of a technical problem, fine. However, that was not the impression you gave. Yes, I care how this forum works, thanks for asking.
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Have YOU never emailed anyone on the forums about their posts or their content?
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Yes, I have. Not for the same reasons you do, but I have emailed forumites before...but never to tell them not to post something because I or somebody else might get my sensitivities in an uproar.
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">What is the pattern of busy-body behavior to which you refer Richard? </font>
Para, I have seen it before...however, I will stand by that, as right now you have over 1800 posts, and I dont have the time or desire to do a search for all your posts...maybe this weekend.
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">I can not learn and change unless I know what is wrong.</font>
Para, dont change at all because of something I or anybody else says. If you think you are right, then stand up. Just because I or somebody else disagrees with you is no reason to 'fix it'. Geez, if I tried to change everytime somebody said I was wrong, I would have to see a shrink.
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">I agreed to moderate this forum because I thought I could do the job and because I CARE. But the chat room crowd has repeatedly tested me (that includes you buddy), and has leveled some pretty harsh criticisms about my locking threads that I really did (and still do) think needing locking. If you want to have a free for all forum, get Timmy to moderate general.
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Great that you care. The forum needs a moderator. Yep, you have taken some crap in the chat room....SO HAS EVERY REGULAR IN THERE!!! 99% is all in fun...friends give each other ribbing...and the other 1% is true arguments...but most of us have learned that we dont all agree about everything..and that critisism and ribbing are not to be taken personally.
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Richard, you sadden me. I thought we were friends. But I guess not. </font>
Oh geez...we cant be friends?? WTF not. Because IMO you are wrong on this?? Big deal. There are others I disagree with, and I have no problem telling them, and they have no problem telling me where to shove it either...but we are friends. Personally, I think you are lock happy...and on this issue, you are wrong...but I still like ya. You dont think you lock to much, and probably think im wrong on alot of things...so you gonna hate me for that? That is one remark I hope (your option) that you re-consider. We dont have to agree on everything to be friends...do we?
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">I am tired of defending my behavior in this forum. I am only doing what I think is right and asking for some help from folks. </font>
Fine, then dont defend yourself. If you believe in what you do, the agree or not, I will respect you for doing what you feel is proper.
Ugh...fingers tired...more later....
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