I should probably get in on this.
Some background:
6ft, 200-205 lbs.
Weighed 160 is High School, in the '80's, and ate like a pig. Or teenager. Could not gain weight.
Been doing 30 pushups a day, nearly every day, since my sophmore year. Still do.
Married in 2000 at 216. Knew I was overweight, but didn't do much about it. Mountain biked and skied much less than I did as a single fellow.
2002 hit 232, with cholesterol ~ 190. Tried oatmeal for breakfast for a year. Weight went to ~ 185, and cholesterol was up to 200!
With my bride, started Weight Watchers and took a hiking class through the community college. Added a series of crunches (as many as 200 a day) to my pushups.
Got down to 174 in about 18 months.
Had a job at Home Depot, got a degree, joined the university Crew Team. Maintained for about a year.
Dropped crew, adopted a baby. Crept up to 200 without realizing it.
Graduated, replaced huffing around HD with a desk job - they brought in lunch every day. Gained 15lbs the 1st month.
Hit 242 lbs in 2010. Said "this must stop." I set a goal of 190lbs, and started consistently walking a couple miles a night after work. Occasional bike rides. 30 pushups and 200 crunches a day.
Cut out ice cream (doesn't agree with me anyway) and tried to cut back on thirds at mealtimes and third drink, too.
Lost 10 lbs in a week.
Joined Jenny Craig with the wife. Cut out seconds most meals (though I still pick at the girls' leftovers.)
Lost 20 more lbs in ~ 6 months.
Got down to 198 2 years ago. Cholesterol's 155, I can swim a mile, ski all day, play tennis for 2 hours, or bike all afternoon. So I know I'm in decent, though not exceptional, shape.
Took a Cross Fit challenge. Ate well. Gained a bunch of muscle and felt great. Didn't lose a pound.
Tracked calories, fat, and exercise on My Fitness Pal for a year. Did all the right things.
Still 198-201.
Now I do my pushups and crunches daily, walk nightly, have a salad for lunch daily and one for dinner a couple times a week, too. Except on special occasions, dessert is fat-free fro-yo, fruit, smart ones, or nothing at all.
I go up to 206 and down to 201, but can't seem to get below.
Hit 209 on my Hawaii vacation last month, and got back to 201 yesterday.
I still have a goal of 190, and don't feel I have any room to cut out more calories without feeling hungry and deprived.
My cross-fit trial was really discouraging, because I didn't increase my intake but I worked out, what felt like for me, a LOT. And nothing changed.
I need to get re-invigorated to bike, hike, and get going. I'm not too worried about the actual weight number - I just feel that 190 will help me lose the spare-tire-feeling and show that I've actually made progress.
And I feel I've run out of ideas.