My heart is breaking

Russ, I'm sorry to hear the news. Whatever happens, we'll always be here for you.

Bob
 
Keep your spirits up as best you can. <<Easy for me to say.>> Glad that you can share your feelings here, and I hope our support helps in some small way. :(
 
Russ, I'm so sorry. I know how much I love my wife and we've been friends for 12 years. You've been with your wife for much longer so I cannot imagine the pain that you and she are facing; but I think I may have an inkling of an idea how much. As Yvsa so poetically says, "My heart is on the ground." I'll pray for you and your family.

We're all here for you. You aren't alone. Take care.

David
 
Kampfjaeger said:
Russ, I'm so sorry. I know how much I love my wife and we've been friends for 12 years. You've been with your wife for much longer so I cannot imagine the pain that you and she are facing; but I think I may have an inkling of an idea how much.

David
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Being in the state of health I'm in I have often thought of my Barbie going on before me. It may be selfish of me but I hope I go first and I've told Barb that.
If my Barbie were to go ahead of me there wouldn't be much left for me to go on for even though I know that I would have to do the best I could.
I wouldn't be who I say I am if I didn't, helluva quandry to be in I'll tell you.:(
I'd sure as hell hate to put that on my kids though as I'd have to live with someone, either that or a nursing home and that isn't an option until I get to where all I can do is set and slobber, and giggle madly.:rolleyes: :grumpy: :(

I'm really feeling for Russ and yes, My heart is on the ground.
I can only begin to imagine as I have what and how I'd feel if it were my Barbie.

More -SMOKE- and also Hugs for Russ and his wife.
 
Russ Kay said:
My wife Harriet is dying of metastatic breast cancer. Yesterday I moved her to a residential hospice near home. She wants the fuss and the discomfort to end, and so do I, yet I don't want to lose her. Prayers and smoke appreciated.

I'm not going to clutter up the forum, but anyone who's interested is welcome to read my online journal at http://www.livejournal.com/users/russkay/

Writing this has been very helpful to me. The Cantina has become an important part of my family. Thanks to you all.
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Russ,

I just saw this. You and Harriet do have my prayers. I pray that each of you will act skillfully in this time of change. It is a potential time of confusion. I read in your journal and it does seem that you are acting skillfully and lovingly to help your wife through this transition. Keep up the good work. You have my respect and my prayers.
 
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