Please allow me to clarify; I'm not a mod here and I'm not throwing any weight around. That's just my personal opinion.
I did not take offense to anything anyone said here. I'm just thinking out loud. No harm done
"Taking power away from a 'bad' word" never works. Not even if you're the person that slur was intended to insult. Words
do have cultural power, especially when used in a hurtful manner. To put a fine point on it, the "n" word is still the "n" word, no matter who says it. "KKK" still means the KKK to most people. I do not take kindly to being called a "cracker".
Sadly, there are still people on this planet who are filled with ignorance and hate, and use those terms to express it. I want nothing to do with those misguided souls.
I adamantly
despise censorship and "political correctness", but I strongly condone thoughtfulness in choosing one's words, so as not to alienate people who might misconstrue your intent. Just say what you really mean. Clarity is very important to productive communication.
Again, that's only my opinion.