Damn...I missed a lot here. I'll try to touch on the important things so I don't feel totally left out.
Sorry to ruin your guys SG2 goodness, but something important happened in my life and I feel like telling somebody so I thought I'd tell you guys.
About 3 years ago my mom got a new boyfriend. Thanks for putting with my mouth and not getting relatively frustrated.
^Edited for space.
In my short 25 years of life (26 in March, by the way...*hint*), I've found that it's really astounding what one is able to live with. Guilt, secrets, abuse, addiction, and all kinds of dysfunction. My family history isn't any more clean than yours, and I turned out fine. I'm actually thankful for it. My father was a philanderer for almost as long as I can remember, and it finally tore my family apart when I was about 13. I was born in NY, we moved to Florida because the cost of living was cheaper, and we moved back up right before I went into high school because my dad was our means of support and my mother couldn't work in FL. The separation was a disaster, and my father wouldn't grant a divorce. He found one way after another to weasel out of it. Longer story a bit shorter, it was my mother, my sister, and myself, in a tiny apartment for a long, long time. The dysfunction grew between my sister and I, and it became violent for a long time. I have scars on my back still from one of our worse encounters. I abused her verbally (years of being an outcast surrounded by books will give that kind of a knack) and she lashed out physically. It was pretty ugly all around.
We lived with it, we got through it, and eventually the mess cleared up. My sister graduated at the top of her class at Stonybrook Uni, got her degree in mechanical engineering, and then got her Masters in engineering and mathematics. Now, she teaches fitness, stretching, and pole dancing, and trains me at the gym. I've got my BA in American Lit. and am in grad school for secondary Ed. My mom is much stronger than she used to be, and despite her disability (she's legally blind), keeps herself well supported. My dad's alright, we've all grown a bit closer. That seems to happen with older age.
Life is odd, complicated, and beyond short descriptors. Sounds like you're doing alright, and I'm sure you'll continue to be so. People say life is short, but it's not. It's long, and it gets really long if you make certain choices. Sorry about all your misfortune, but I'm glad it seems the clouds are passing. Cheers mate.
Greenie- I got you on a TiLT. Before rival pimps it, l'll send it to to you for a week to carry. It's a user anyway.
I owe you for the hop slam.
PM me your mailing address when ya can.
Greenie, did you miss that^? Seems like it, I didn't see a response. Either way, that is all sorts of win.
