Thomas Linton said:
"Asking questions is a sign of weakness" is right up (DOWN!) there with "Never complain; never explain." Sounds cool. No sense.
Explain me this, team. When that woman dared to look over her shoulder at her burning home and God turned her into a pillar of salt, was He angry?
Thankfully, when this stuff comes up, I get to fall back on what I was taught as a Catholic - "The bible was written for people in biblical times." - which gives you a lot of leeway for explaining away discrepencies, inconsistencies or things that are just inconvenient or uncomfortable to discuss. One of our priests when I was younger had about seven doctoral degrees. He was bright enough to explain things in a way that made sense without falling back on shut up and believe or because I said so. He also encouraged questions. He had a rule that children had to sit in the front two rows and after his sermon he'd take a break to stop and ask us questions and allow us to ask questions as well before continuing with the service.* If I'd spent more time asking him questions, I'd probably be a lot less messed up now.
In this case with the pillar of salt, I hope he is angry. Otherwise, God comes off as a mean, ruthless b#####d.
I know executive types that subscribe to the, "Asking questions is a sign of weakness" theory. Instead, they just disagree with whatever you say so that you have to justify (and thus explain) each point. They'll claim afterwards they did it to make sure
you know what you're talking about to excuse their arguments being wrong. It's a nice bit of posturing that makes them look strong and blunts the impact of the person they do it too. Even though you're right, you come off as weak because you're on the defensive so long. It can make a 15 minute meeting stretch out for a full day and not get resolved until morning.
This technique can also be used to get something done in the way they suggest when your way would be faster and better so they get credit for solving a problem. As they have more control of their time, they'll pick away at your way until you don't have time to argue anymore.
*Note that asking about the whole Joseph/Mary husband/wife relationship and Jesus being the son of God is a question you'd want to ask when your parents weren't there as they tend to think you're just trying to be a smart-alec. I couldn't understand why all the adults were laughing...
