We are all citizens of Earth. Some of us are a little more parochial than others. Some revel in exploring the various styles of dress, food, or language, available to our species, while others feel more comfortable with the familiar.
Yes, some of the less adventurous do snicker behind my back. Ive grown to enjoy it.
I wore my utilikilt a lot in China last summer. If they are unusual in the US, they are truly unusual in China. Here is a picture taken last summer at Badaling, PRC. The utilikilt was a great icebreaker. I had a lot of fun with the kids I met. We had sprint races up the great wall and took a lot of pictures together. They had never seen a Yang gui zi in a skirt before. One little girl asked her mother Why is that man wearing a dress? Numerous young women wanted pictures too.
I suspect the women arent attracted to the kilts as much as the attitude of willingness to explore, and your reluctance to be bound by the parochial mores of some of your contemporaries. I didnt have my skirt, but was wearing my purse in the shot below. (Taken by my wife.) The women are tourists who just wanted a photo. They are nice girls who were in from the country vacationing in Beijing. I find the same type of reaction from women in the USA. Ive been approached several times by US ladies inquiring as to what I was wearing under the kilt. Some of the US women had bold suggestions as to how they could find out.
I was searched at a government checkpoint below Tian An Men while wearing my utilikilt. I was going up to the famous gate of the forbidden city where Chairman Mao used to address the masses in Tian An Men square below, and I didnt know there was a security checkpoint. I was carrying a lockblade SAK. Of course, the studs in the utilikilt set of the metal detectors. The security personnel confiscated a plastic bottle full of water I was carrying in one of the cargo pockets but they didnt find the SAK. I guess there are other advantages to wearing unconventional garments.
PS. Lest my name excuse me for wearing Scottish garments, it should be known that I very much like the sarong in tropical climes.