You say people survive cougar attacks all the time but failed to mention the 10 or so deaths from 1991 to 2000.
Indeed, follow the link in my post and read reports of the known attacks for the past 120 or so years are mostly non fatal.
Most are injury reports. In some, people killed the attacking cougar with pocket knives, in one a rock and frying pan, in another a woman, all alone, killed the cougar that took her from behind with tweezers. Another attack on a 77 year old man, from behind, he was able to get his hands in it's jaws and get the cat to release his neck! He fought, and got the cougar in a choke hold for a few minutes until another man was able to get it with a .22. His story is pretty fun to read. If the worst happens, I'm not giving up, just because some one else died, or you tell me I can't win.
I'm not saying a cougar attack can't kill some one. I know that they do kill people, because I live in WA, where people get killed every year, but most survive. But spend some time and read the reports in the link. You will see the survival/injury reports far outweigh the deaths.
I will tell you something else, I have lived in several areas that are considered cougar country. I have hiked in cougar country, camped in cougar country, rode my bike in cougar country.
I have been approached by my fair share of bears, and am more worried about them than cougars, by a long shot.
I have seen cougar up close, from a few feet away. They were not "wild" in that the neighbor kept them in a a big enclosure. They were not "pets", in that they would try and eat him. He used to put on a leather suit, with a neck guard, and face guard, and go in and "wrestle" with his cougars. Without the gear, he would not go in the cage. He had them for a few years, but the cost and danger were pretty high, and he does not have them any more. They were never "pets" to him, and would have killed him given the opportunity.
I am simply annoyed at people who suggest that some one must lay down and die if attacked by a cougar.
When I am out and about, in cougar and bear country, I usually have a fixed blade or two, and usually a .357 or a .40 (some times a shotgun if I have the space and weight is not an issue).
If a cougar attacks me or a family member I'm not planning on laying down and letting it win. I have seen way too many reports of even small little ladies fighting them off to think that way.
Could a full grown cougar kill me? Absolutely. Could I kill a full grown cougar? Yes. With a weapon, and a little luck, I hope I could.
The OP said her husband is out in cougar country, and has concerns and cannot carry a gun. Well, a sharp pointy medium to large fixed blade, and pepper spray are better than harsh words.
Do I think this guy is going to have to fight off a cougar attack with a knife? I sure hope not.
But I tell you, if a little lady can kill one with a pair of medical tweezers, and nothing else, than I'm gonna carry a knife (and probably a gun), and feel pretty good about my self.
I have had bear try to climb into my rig with me more than once. I have had a bear come out onto the dock where I was swimming, and I had to dive under the water and swim up under the next dock over and hide. Throughout my life I have seen my fair share of bear while out in the mountains.
I have never seen a cougar in the wild. Only their tracks, and the neighbors in his run. (that was in cougar country).
I feel the same way about people that say "a knife won't do you any good against an attacking dog". Bull. Again, it is better than harsh words and bare hands.
Carry what you can. Try to be aware.
If a cougar is hunting you, you might not see it. It might get you from behind, and you won't hear it until it is chewing on your head from behind.
But again, and again, from all of the the country, I see reports, interviews, photo's, and accounts of people much smaller and less physically strong than me fighting them off and surviving. Sure, people also die from these encounters, but I'm not going to stop going out just because I might run into a cougar, or a bear. If I can, I will have knives and a gun.