an update, my cousin met with one of the top neurosurgeons in the state on Thursday for another opinion. He is going to be doing surgery to remove the largest brain tumor on Thursday. He will then be using the cyberknife on the three smaller ones. After this she will have radiation and then chemo for the lung. It is stage 4 lung cancer. The doctors want to go at this aggressively as she is young and in otherwise good health. They feel if she responds well to this course of treatment they will be able to give her some years. So even though the news sucks, at least there is hope for some good years for her. She told the kids this weekend, and bless their hearts, they took it pretty well. I am so proud of how strong my family is. I'd like to again thank everyone for their well wishes. You guys and gals are awesome.