Man I am so sad to hear this, but grateful your daughter and attitude are all OK. I agree with everyone else that the pawn shops are a good start. As far as replacing shrubbery, I have no idea what grows where you are. It may be too cold, but here is what I did. I set up an "impenetratable" defensive perimiter around the house. I planted a TON of Euphorbia Splendens all the way around the house. It is a nice bush with pretty flowers and a nasty bite. I wanted a defensive permiter that didn't look defensive from afar. People start wondering what you have that is so valuable to protect if the defenses are too obvious. I also planted Pyracantha coccinea in with it and Bougainvilela in front of the bathroom windows. It actually is very attractive to look at. I just bought a super duper nasty shrub for planting along the road. I buy one at a time as money is available. I cant remember the correct name, but I have heard it called monkey puzzle. It is not the same as the evergreen tree with the same name however. I then planted more attractive plants out from these to soften things. Just some helpful tips from a friend - Merry Christmas.