I have both as well and my opinion is the Civilian is one badass knife. It, however, is designed to do one thing.
That is to intimidate someone into leaving you alone, on sight of it alone, or to ensure that whomever you had to deploy it against would be in very big trouble. That is assured.
However, while it excels at what it does, it is pigeonholed by its uniqueness. As others have said, the waved Matriarch 2 deploys easily, and you can actually cut stuff with it. However, as much as I wanted it to, it was not the be-all, end-all I envisioned it to be. Just like you, now.
But lastly, I need to say that if you're a knife guy, you should get both. They are very unique and need to be experienced.
You can always sell them, but at least you will never wonder about them anymore. And if you're like me, you keep them both!
Pair the Civilian with a Kydex sheath made for it (Google it) - Derick Desmond on here makes them, and they are very high quality - and you got yourself a nice SD piece. Trust me on that.
No one in their right mind would ever mess with you unless they had a gun, and they better be far enough away that you cannot reach them. Or they are toast!