What do you do when someone asks to borrow your knife?

I always ask why they want.
If its some cutting task and te person seems trustworthy I let them use it. If its someone I don't really know I say "sure what do you want me to cut?" :)
 
Hearing that somebody wanted to use an expensive knife to scrape metal gives me chills. If somebody asks me for a knife at work I go to my desk and grab them a cheap Stanley utility knife.

My worst experience is when I let somebody use my ZT 0560 and he ended up running most of the cutting edge along a nail while cutting the plastic off of a skid. Ever since then nobody uses any of my knives.....Ever
 
I used to carry an extra "loaner". After multiple screwed up knives and a few that just grew legs, I quit "loaning" any knife to anyone. 1 exception - life-threatening situation. That's it.

I ask "What do you need cut?" and cut it myself, if I have deemed them worthy of being the recipient of the advantage of me carrying a knife.

Kinda callous, right? Nope. They are wanting to borrow something from me. They want to take advantage of me being prepared. If someone wanted to borrow your car, your motorcycle, chain saw, you rifle or your handgun or any other item that has the POTENTIAL to cause injury or death if misused, you'd either say NO or ask a bunch of questions before letting them use the item. A knife falls into the same category.

Who will I cut something for?? My recent examples are a little old lady in the post office having trouble with the packing tape, the mother trying to corral 3 kids and a string gets entangled in her stroller wheel, the WW2 vet who asks if I have a knife to cut something for him, because all cowboys have knives ( I was wearing one of my hats and bolo ties like I generally do) and he no longer carries a knife because his arthritic fingers can't safely use one any more.

Who won't I cut something for? Healthy, able bodied, unencumbered folks who don't even own one. After I find out what they need to cut, I ask them "Where's your knife?" Their answer usually makes it real clear as to their attitude towards carrying knives.

Now why have I developed this attitude? A couple of reasons. First reason is, in this day and age, if I loan a knife to someone and they screw up somehow - either screw some thing up, injure themselves or someone else, I could be found liable. Is this right? No. They did the deed, whatever it was. But with the laws and lawyer attitudes, I "enabled the deed to occur". I choose not to put myself at risk of having my physical and/or financial freedom hosed by some idiot and then having to be at the mercy or 6-12 "peers", many of whom don't even know how to spell "Knife" much less responsibly own one.

People have lost the attitude of proper, responsible behavior and have developed the sense that it is all about them. Lawyers chasing the big bucks and encouraging people to "sue, to get what someone else owes you." or some DA looking for an easy kill. The bleeding hearts who think that everything should be equal and safe for everyone, even if they have to dumb things down and ban anything that evens smells of being dangerous if used improperly by some deranged individual.

The second reason is that I have decided that (my opinion, no one else's) - If they are too damn stupid/fearful/idiotic/out of touch with reality to understand that a knife is a tool to be carried and used and don't own one themselves but will try to borrow someone else's, then I'm not gonna help them out of their non-life threatening situation that they put themselves into by listening to the BS about a knife being a weapon.

Enough soap box.
Right on!
 
This thread has been a huge help.
Next time someone asks to borrow my knife, I'll start talking about "Modern times", "Human instinct", "Teaching a man to fish"...and they'll get really bored and go somewhere else.
Problem solved! :D
Thank you internet. :thumbup:

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Man, alot of you need to get off your high horse. This assumption that just because someone doesn't carry a pocket knife daily means they must be an idiot just isn't true. You can't make generalizations like that. But I also wouldn't lend out my folder to just anyone who asks. You make judgments about people within seconds of seeing them. If some crazy looking wretch I don't know pops up out of nowhere and asks me for anything I'll tell him to piss off, but if one of my engineering colleagues politely asks to borrow it for a second I'd be happy to help. I'm not going to let someone who works in receiving of a distribution facility borrow my knife all day. But I also don't want to seem like a selfish jackass who is never willing to help out to someone I see almost daily. Later on I may need a favor from them. Just common courtesy.
 
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Man, alot of you need to get off your high horse. This assumption that just because someone doesn't carry a pocket knife daily means they must be an idiot just isn't true. You can't make generalizations like that. But I also wouldn't lend out my folder to just anyone who asks. You make judgments about people within seconds of seeing them. If some crazy looking wretch I don't know pops up out of nowhere and asks me for anything I'll tell him to piss off, but if one of my engineering colleagues politely asks to borrow it for a second I'd be happy to help. I'm not going to let someone who works in receiving of a distribution facility borrow my knife all day. But I also don't want to seem like a selfish jackass who is never willing to help out to someone I see almost daily. Later on I may need a favor from them. Just common courtesy.


It doesn't make them an idiot; just unprepared... ;)

I will let close friends and family borrow my knives if I'm standing there with them but that's about it. In most cases they know well enough to just ask me to cut whatever needs cutting for them typically. ;):D

Anyone else (barring an emergency) and it's Stabman's version What does the fox say of "No No No No No No!"...

I've had too many situations where someone that I leant a knife to had no idea how to use it and damaged the knife or almost hurt themselves. :thumbdn:
 
Pull your Gerber utility knife out of your back pocket, and sell it to them for a $20 spot, then they can destroy their own knife!!!!!!

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I have a bunch of knives and I enjoy sharpening them so anyone that ask gets to use them. It's not like you can replace them with something better if they totally trash them. I've never had one damaged though in all the years of loaning them out.
 
Borrow a knife? Simple question What for? I used to keep an inexpensive Frost slipjoint in my desk just for this purpose. I would not loan out an expensive knife or one I considered expensive. I usually suggest that they consider carrying a knife too just in case.
 
I usually ask them what they want to use it for, and if it's a satisfactory answer hand it over. Most of the tie it's my Vic Recruit or Opinel 06 that lives in my left pocket.
 
I'm guilty of being one of the people that you don't want to hand your knife to, the other day my buddy at work handed me his CRKT and without thinking I proceeded to cut a paper package open on top of a metal cabinet. didn't even hit me that it could dull his blade until he said something because I'm so used to sharpening my knives constantly.
 
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