How about all forums non-moderated? It works quite well over at talk.shooters.com. All players pretty much moderate themselves, with the rare exception of one as***le that keeps showing up. When he does, people publicly complain, and the next day, he is gone! No fanfare, no big explanation. They just ice him. All arguments are public, to keep eveyone on an even level. No back alley emails. It's pretty refreshing, really, how civilized peple can act, when they are allowed to police themselves. I'm sure it save the moderators a ton of work, also.