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My childhood “best” friend told me a number of times that I had an obsessive personality. He was referring to how when I’m interested in something I dig right in with hyper focus. Like when I was in karate, I practiced all the time at home. Or D&D, I crafted an entire campaign world from scratch (Parlanos) complete with a map of the continent, and the races inhabiting it and their relationships and economy. I would stay up til the wee hours doing this stuff. And then guitar. All these things by the time I was 19. He said it in a critical way though, as if being dedicated to something you love was a bad thing. I retrospect he and I did not have a healthy friendship, and we drifted apart, but not before my gung ho attempts to convince him to get into Hindu squats and Hindu push-ups with me when I discovered them, and then kettlebells. He was never interested and friction between us increased as did the different directions we took in life.