I read this entire thread and the links. It became one of those "I just couldn't put it down" reads.
I've only been a member here for a short while, comparatively speaking. In that short time, I have ordered and purchased numerous custom knives from several knifemakers. In all of my transactions, from start to finish, I have had nothing but smooth, timely, courteous, pleasant communications and end results. Hopefully, that will continue for me as time passes.
Mr. Poff reminds me of many (if not most) of my hundreds and hundreds of "clients" during my 28 years as a LEO. None was ever totally wrong and would say whatever was necessary to mitigate their actions. They would often attempt an end-run in the form of soliciting sympathy for whatever reasons to whomever would listen.....as this has obviously worked in some capacity for them previously. I have no doubt that Mr. Poff has had some trying times in his life. Who hasn't that's over the age of 16....? The character and integrity of a person is easily discerned by how they deal with these trying times. The case of Mr. Poff is no exception.
We all have likely helped out another in need, be they family members, friends or strangers. In no case would I feel more relieved if I were to be taken advantage of more by one of said group over another. But, it does take a "special" person to discount anothers friendship enough to place that friendship in jepardy, much less to knowingly and quite willingly commit a crime against that friend....which is exactly what Mr. Poff did in this and many other alleged circumstances. Theft and fraud are the obvious crimes. Lack of integrity, albeit not a crime, is of no less importance and carries no less weight.....to my way of thinking.
Suffice it to say, I will never do business with Mr. Poff nor will I ever promote his business to friends or any other members. He has clearly shown that he lacks the character which I feel necessary to do business with and the fairness and forthright behavior I expect in any human being no matter what his lot in life may be or might have been. These current matters and/or issues coupled with his obvious history of such shady dealings should make anyone more than a bit leery of doing business with Mr. Poff. To act otherwise would seem foolish, but then again, something about "a fool is born...............".
Feeling sorry for someone who has done everything possible to make matters right makes perfect sense and I would applaud those that have worked together to satisfy that which needed resolution. It is painfully obvious that it would have taken only a phone call or email to clarify most matters that have been discussed in this thread and others. Last I checked, sending emails was free, so even if funds were/are a problem (which really isn't a buyer's problem, no matter what), this could easily have been accomplished, without costing him a penny. We're talking months of no communications between he and his customers........paid customers.
It is human to want to forget and to forgive. The problem lies not in the forgetting or forgiving, but in who we allow ourselves to forget and forgive. Those who have received such "gifts" on numerous occasions and continue to commit these same crimes, they are "users" and will not change as long as they can benefit from our continuing to enable them. Unfortunately, that's exactly what we are doing.....enabling them. Worst of all, we then are setting up other members to be potential customers/victims of Mr. Poff which I'm sure isn't in any of our best interest. So yes, we have a community interest and responsibility to air this subject and it is good and fair that it is being discussed here and openly. To do otherwise would serve Mr. Poff and as far as I can tell, Mr. Poff only cares about Mr. Poff and his best interests are quite obvious. I know that telling Mr. Poff to keep the $ and just return the items sounds well intended, but it only furthers his belief that he can "get-over' on others at will. This offer really only emboldens Mr. Poff and his beliefs and lifestyle and in the long run (perhaps, not so long), places all of us and others more in harm's way. Stealing, lying and fraud is not OK.....no matter who and why they're doing it.
There are too many skilled forum members to take chances on those we know have "issues". Being a "bad businessman" or making bad choices are self-inflicted for the most part. To want to place even a little bit of the blame for one's own obvious failings on those who have extended themselves in an attempt to help.........totally selfish, disrespectful, childish and cowardly..........at best.