If he pulled a weapon, I would
If he had a weapon, I would
If he was in the process of making a weapon, I would
If he had the raw materials, I would
If he beat his wife and kids, I would
If he was linked to, however tenuously, to anybody who commited a violent crime, I would.
Of course I wouldn't leave his family high and dry...
I would move in to his home and take over as husband and father, and maintain his lucrative grocery store, At least until I found someone suitable to take over for me.
Yes, in the meantime I know that my own family's needs may be neglected but I know I'm keeping them safe.
Yes, as expected I'll meet some resistance by some members of the family, I'll have to put them down too.
I know this sounds crazy and maybe even illegal but if the law won't do anything about it, I will!
Eventually I would let my new wife select her own head of house hold but I'll keep my eye on her choice in case she makes the wrong decision, because of course, I know what's best for the safety of my family.