Not trying to argue with you but.....follow my logic for a bit. Then you can call me wrong, no offense or further posts will be made.
I see your point but what is your alternative as a buyer? Getting a MO, which like I said would cost you like what $2 for the MO, envelope and stamp + the gas it took you to get to the post office and back. You're at probably $5-6 bucks or so AND your time. So, that said why would the buyer complain about paying the fees? Chances are the fees are nearly the same cost as getting a USPS MO. The buyer doesn't charge the seller for his cost of getting a MO so why would the seller be responsible for the PP fees? UNLESS you are talking about a $300+ transaction in which case they could split the fees and I think that would be fair.
That might be the paypal rule, but so is gifting....so people obviously break those rules quite frequently. Right or wrong as it may be.
Again this is just my opinion which I'm sure will be accepted by 50% and hated by the other 50% of users here.
For the record I never use gift and don't approve of it one bit.
I can put a check in the mail for $0.45 and not have to deal with getting a MO.
Paypal is a necessary evil. Sellers should simply wrap the fees up in the price (like every other business does with CCs).