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You can always spot the "winner" of a knife fight...he's the guy laying on his back, covered with blood, with his hand up, asking for help.....the looser is dead.
I have had a few years in self defense. And my brother personally dealt with finding his exgirlfriends sister murdered some years ago, she was stabbed to death by a crazy ex boyfriend. . This kind of thing can change you.
I taught self defense at one time, and actually went to my brothers high school, and taught several girls in an after school Martial Arts class that my brother was teaching for extra credit. I was the "guest" instructor...go figure. Basically, what I have been taught and what I teach is basically, taking on someone bigger and stronger in a head to head fight, is not a good idea.
You have to train to use the best weapon you have..your head. Smarts has saved many a lady and man from certain doom.
Every single time someone asks me what to do in a self defense situation I always have the same answer. SHOOT THE BAD GUY.
If you don't have a gun, you better have some training. The internet can NOT prepare anyone for real violence.
Only training and smarts...mixed with a little luck.
There are a bunch of tough, well trained people on the internet, but typing back and forth with them can not help someone with the actual moment of violence.
Its harsh and stark in its reality.
I have been unlucky enough to have seen to much of this kind of thing. I live in one of the worst little towns in America. 3 methadone clinics and a whole bunch of gangs means its was a rough young adulthood. I stayed out of trouble by doing the right thing, I avoided situations that could lead to violence,and preparing for the worst. Martial Arts in my minds eye is seeing the future...today, you know when you are headed for trouble. Some just forget to listen to that little guy or gal on their shoulder...whispering good advice.
You have a child, and live in Alabama. Get training, and a gun.
If someone is in your space and means you harm....shoot them.
I have had a few years in self defense. And my brother personally dealt with finding his exgirlfriends sister murdered some years ago, she was stabbed to death by a crazy ex boyfriend. . This kind of thing can change you.
I taught self defense at one time, and actually went to my brothers high school, and taught several girls in an after school Martial Arts class that my brother was teaching for extra credit. I was the "guest" instructor...go figure. Basically, what I have been taught and what I teach is basically, taking on someone bigger and stronger in a head to head fight, is not a good idea.
You have to train to use the best weapon you have..your head. Smarts has saved many a lady and man from certain doom.
Every single time someone asks me what to do in a self defense situation I always have the same answer. SHOOT THE BAD GUY.
If you don't have a gun, you better have some training. The internet can NOT prepare anyone for real violence.
Only training and smarts...mixed with a little luck.
There are a bunch of tough, well trained people on the internet, but typing back and forth with them can not help someone with the actual moment of violence.
Its harsh and stark in its reality.
I have been unlucky enough to have seen to much of this kind of thing. I live in one of the worst little towns in America. 3 methadone clinics and a whole bunch of gangs means its was a rough young adulthood. I stayed out of trouble by doing the right thing, I avoided situations that could lead to violence,and preparing for the worst. Martial Arts in my minds eye is seeing the future...today, you know when you are headed for trouble. Some just forget to listen to that little guy or gal on their shoulder...whispering good advice.
You have a child, and live in Alabama. Get training, and a gun.
If someone is in your space and means you harm....shoot them.
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