Holierthanthou said:
Nothing positive to contribute then Esav?
Do you? So far you have posted a list of things that bother you about people you don't know talking about subjects that may or may not interest you.
And it appears that unless someone replies in complete agreement with you, you accuse them of putting you down and hurting your feelings.
So what do YOU want? You tell us. Here are some points to consider:
1. Practical Tactical is a controversial forum, tackling controversial--even scary--topics. Most people prefer not to even read the threads. As a direct consequence of having controversial subjects, you get controversial replies. Personally, I like not having the answer. I like the challenge of thinking through someone's reply; it'll either make me question whether I've got the right viewpoint, or whether I was right to hold my ground.
2. This isn't a gardening tips forum. I know a few of the regular posters off-line. I can tell you this is a really rough crowd, often rougher in person. We also have more of the international experts than any other similar forum: recognized authorities, writers, fighters, and instructors. Instead of esoteric threads concerning minute details of exotic situations, we all choose to welcome newcomers one and all on introductory topics and pointers. But it's always a tough crowd, who have by and large seen and done a lot. One reason you won't see Ken Cox demanding an apology from anyone who bashes him is because he neither needs nor wants one. If he ever does need or want an apology, he'll ask for it. And get it. It may surprise you that Ken *might not* appreciate you demanding one on his behalf.
3. You have enormous power to skip, scan, ignore, and correct. If the thread isn't productive for you, skip it. If you want to get to the meat of the matter, scan to it. If you loathe the poster in question, put him or her on ignore... I've got a few people on my ignore list, and I'm sure I'm on a few lists myself. If the thread isn't moving in your direction, correct it by either posting a clarification question or starting a new topic. I mean no condescension when I say it's easy to do... but it IS easy to do, and the quality of replies goes up.
4. Lurk a while longer. Learn what threads trigger the hostile responses, what are the taboo topics, and what the angles are of the various individuals who post here. Contrary to your expectations, we all learn a tremendous amount by what people write, what they say, and why they do it. You will have observed much about people already from reading... but as JGD sagely puts it, sometimes today's jerk is tomorrow's best pal who helps you out.
This is the best classroom in the Internet. No other forum is so compelling, fascinating, and helpful. Other on-line forums are tightly moderated, dry, censored, and sterile, and I don't post there. I like the frank honesty of opinions here. It's liberating. Sure, I think there are times when people more than cross the line, but that
ends after a day or two, and people get back to helping each other.
So how would YOU do something helpful, rather than asking the people you criticize to fix your perception for you?