I consider myself on 'the fringe' of the custom knife community.
I enjoy the learning and looking.
Mainly the learning.
(I also think that anyone that collects knives should try putting a handle on a store bought blade...it'll really open your eyes to what it takes for good F&F...and that's without making a blade...I'll be a knifemaker....some day

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The forums are a wealth of knowlege for those that want to learn.
I don't think 'we' are our worst enemy at all.
One must be willing to wade through all the opinions, weighing each against each other as you get to know the people who are behind said opinions.
Be willing to do the leg work and research.
I came to bf looking for one good bowie...and stayed.
If one comes reads for a week, never looks at the archives and drops some money...there's a very good chance that they'll end up with the flavor of the month.
Trends, makers, styles come and go. Some are consistant.
Now, I've never sold a knife so my perspective is different than you 'wheeler dealer' & 'investment' guys.
There was no intimidation factor for me.
I was comfortable knowing that I had homework to do.
I read all the archives (granted, they were smaller then) before I made a post.
I was overwhelmed at my first show here in NYC.
At the second show, our own PhilL took pity on me. He took me around and introduced me to alot of knife makers and a bunch of knifeknuts.
Thank you PhilL, that made all the difference in the world.
I feel fortunate that I had Les go over a knife for me.
The knife and what he thought of it aren't important to this discussion.
The lessons learned were priceless.
He looked at the knife for a good while. From angles that hadn't entered my mind. As he was doing that he explained why & what he was looking for.
Every newbie should be so lucky.
And don't think that I'm kissing up to Les, I've bought exactly 1 $200 hunter from him and he prolly doesn't even remember that.
I treat myself to a knife now and then, but not on the financial level of the big guns here.
That's by choice. Right now I'd rather have 4- 2 or 3 hundred dollar knives that I'd use rather than a thousand dollar knife that I wouldn't. (I know I could but
I wouldn't...its me

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I've often said that the search is half the fun.