I could understand if a seller were forcing the buyer to use PP, then of course the seller should pay the 3%, but if the seller simply says, ill take a MO, check or PP +3%, and the buyer wants to use PayPal for whatever reason, the buyer CHOOSES PayPal, why is the seller soley responsible for the fees? Your answer seems to be its the cost of doing business, well, again, selling at a loss, with ZERO chance or intention of making a dime isnt "doing business" in any sense of the word, you are not making a profit, and what you really seem to be saying is, hey, using PP helps you, the seller, so suck it up and pay the 3%, so in effect, youre saying the seller should pay the fees because he benefits from using PP, well, once again, let me point out, SO DOES THE BUYER! He gets to buy on credit and gets immediate shipping, its also more convienient for him to pay with PP. So, since BOTH buyer and seller benefit and seller is NOT selling for profit and already losing on the deal in all liklihood, i ask again, why is it not fair to split the fees? Another thing i wonder is how many of you who think its petty to ask for help with the 3% are consistantly selling high-end knives, which may be selling for $2,000+, sure, on a $100, $200, heck, even a $500 knife, the 3% isnt that big a deal, and as i said earlier, i dont bother worrying about a $5, $10, or even $15 PayPal fee, but what about when youre selling a high-end custom at already a $500 loss and then you get hit with another $60 in PayPal fees because the buyer chooses to use PayPal, you might change your thinking. As a seller, you offer payment options, if the buyer chooses PP because he benefits by it, why is it not fair to ask him to split the fees?
Again, yes, if you are selling at a profit in an actual business, then yes, offering PP is the cost of doing business, no different than accepting credit cards, but when a hobbiest is selling at a loss to finance another purchase, he is not in business and thus by definition should not be subject to the same rules and fees that are the cost of doing business.
The irony here is, i rarely even ask for any help with the 3%, the rare occasions i do is if im selling a knife at a very cheap price and then i may ask the buyer to split the fees with me, and frankly, maybe ive done it 2 or 3 times out of maybe 100, and yet, i still believe that in principle, for a non-merchant, a hobbiest who sells his knives at a loss to finance new knives, the fair thing to do is split the fees since both parties benefit and the buyer CHOSE to use PP!!! The seller did not hold a gun to the buyers head and insist on PayPal, the buyer chose it because he prefers it, a fee is therefore incurred, why should the seller, who is not selling at a profit in anything resembling a business absorb the entire 3%, particularly on a sale where the fee isnt a measely $5, but maybe $75, are you that wealthy that you can throw away $75 at the drop of a hat, is $75 a "petty" amount of $$$? Especially if it happens several times?