Ok, i just received Message from paypal.
Tom payed me the 100$ back, via G&S, so i hope he doesn't claim it back

or I have to make a new thread

I am very relieved that this is sorted out.
As i said: please do not ignore Tom anymore in your lists.
In his email he explained me some of his private life and it is not always black and white...
I want to apologise to Tom for the efforts he made, and after all thank him for refunding me the money!
I am happy we sorted this out!
I think Tom is a genuine 100% reliable seller in the USA, sadly enough it turned out otherwise when handling overseas.
So please do not ignore Tom.
Also, I want to thank all of you! I never witnessed this...raising funds...it shows how beautiful forums like these are, all over the world...
Also for the moral support, thank you all!
I will now send a personal email to Tom to say thanks.
I wish you all the best and am happy to say: THREAD CAN BE CLOSED!
All the best to you all and talk to you soon!