Alpha, just to be a voice of reason,
I really don't know, so i'll ask.. Let's say you got the blade refinished, would you then be able to sell it for your money back? Or better yet, do you think it would fetch more than $350 on eBay?
If so, then i guess you could consider this a lesson learned, but yet not take a loss. It's just one way so as you are'nt 'stuck' with it as is.
Again, the paypal/credit card issue should work, but will cause Ranger problems most likely. That's another choice.
The selling of this knife, as long as it was'nt sold "As-Is" should definitely be the final decision of the buyer and if it isn't up to par, it's the seller who must make it right. This is bordering on fraud, if i'm not mistaken. (post office might also help in that case)
I feel action should be taken against Ranger, i just don't know to what extent as far as misrepresentation/fraud.
This isn't *new to me, as it seems many kids in the military feel they're *protected* and can freely shun responsibility without incurring any repurcussions from those actions. The best thing you could do is find his whereabouts in the military and discuss this matter with his supervisors and see how far that takes you. Company Commanders don't like to hear this ****
edit:
he denies that it was damaged, but would make no effort to make the deal right. Your word vs. his, and i know neither of you.
I suggest the first option above, get it fixed, and sell it. And let Spark determine Ranger's fate. After reading the emails, i think that's the best course of action.