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Exactly what I was thinking. As a young person (16) I am really starting to learn just how much I have to learn.
I am curious though, do you carry anything for self defense, or just not knives? I mainly carry knives as tools. But I also carry knives as a way of defending myself if necessary.
I carry knives as tools also. I may change out what I normally carry "just in case" if my wife and I are going someplace questionable but that is extremely rare. Maybe once or twice a year at best.
I do have some martial arts training. The key word here is "some". Not enough to claim that I am proficient. I am of the belief that for martial arts to work for you, keeping yourself in the best physical shape you can is a must. So is keeping up with your martial arts proficiency. I have not worked out in years.
I also have had SD training that was required for a past employer. Disarming assailants, baton & mace training (not pepper spray), crowd control, a permit to carry, etc. My time in the military was also a big help.
What I have learned from all of this is that you must have the right attitude. With the right attitude you carry yourself differently. You make safer choices as to where you go, what you do for recreation and who you choose as friends. Where you walk, how you walk. Where you drive and how to carry yourself when you get out of the car. If you get out of the car at all. When to keep your mouth shut and when to speak up. The list can go on but I think you get the idea. Some people will never figure these things out but most of it is just learning a certain lifestyle.
Let me give you a simple common sense example of what I am writing about. If you could look at my keyring, you would find a dog tag that acts as a fob. My two most often used keys are found on each side of that fob. House key and car key. I have more keys but those two always stay on the outside. I can have keys out, unlock the door, place the keys back in my pocket, and be inside while my wife is still messing around trying to find the right key. Less time to become a victim. Studies have shown that criminals normally go after people that ask to be victims by how they carry themselves; how they dress and where they hang out. Don't be a victim. Don't hang out with victims.
You say that you are really just starting to learn just how much you have to learn. If you know that at 16 years of age, you are leaps and bounds ahead of me when I was that age. And probably ahead of your friends.
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