Re: child duties
Daniel, if you can swing it, try to take care of all the overnight child care. I have been the only one to wake up with my son since birth and it is fantastic leverage to try to get done what I want during the day! My wife "can't" hear our son when he wakes up, so I get all the over night duties which is only tough for the first 6-8 months. Beyond the leverage it is immensley satisfying to hold your child and get them to go to sleep in your arms! The key is routine, I ALWAYS hum the same song, hold him the same way, give him the same treatment. Kids respond very well to this. Now I wake up when he flops over in bed, I am so used to it. Occasionally my wife tries to put him to bed and he's like WTF are you doing? This isn't how it goes! It's really kinda funny. My boy just turned two on the eleventh and things are pretty much settled into a decent routine. Good luck, and your life will never be the same! Oh, and make sure t get a baby monitor that will reach into the shop, this has afforded me a couple hours during the day to work out there.
-Xander