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Forgive me for quoting myself, but I wanted to give an update on my dad.

A scan in September showed a spot in the Kidney that they wanted to monitor, but otherwise the scan was looking pretty good. The spot in the lung in the scans was determined to be scar tissue from the surgery and not something to worry about. They wanted to keep an eye on the Kidney and scheduled a follow up scan after my brother's wedding in the middle of October. My dad was performing the ceremony, and they didn't want the testing or any treatment needed to get in the way of the wedding.

The followup scan however not only showed the kidney issue, but an extremely fast growing (since it wasn't there in the scan just a month prior) tumor in the muscle tissue around the spinal column. Biopsies showed this to be melanoma as well. Because of how fast it spread, and how it was spread throughout the muscle, they are not able to operate.

Monday he starts a very aggressive treatment to try and slow the growth and hopefully shrink it to the point that they can operate. His brother who has Melanoma as well has responded very well to this type of treatment. It's one of those though that if the cancer doesn't kill ya, the side effect just might. But it's the best hope at this point.

We're heading up to see my folks and the rest of the family for Thanksgiving. Then in a few weeks I'll be heading back up on my own to spend time with my folks as the side effects from treatment start kicking in so that I can be there to help out. Fortunately, I've been able to work things out on the job front to allow me some extended time away.

Thanks everyone for the prayers and smoke.

Cancer sucks.

Prayer for you my friend. Cancer is just awful. I've lost my best friends 2 year old son last year to brain cancer, have another friends 4 year old fighting leukemia, and have a 34 year old friend fight brain cancer. Its overwhelming. Being there for them and staying positive is the best thing you can do, as I'm sure you are aware.
 
I am very sorry to hear about your father Nathan. I lost my dad to cancer 3 years ago. Your dad is in our prayers and we'll also be praying for you and your family for strength and comfort during this difficult time.
 
Thoughts and prayers for your Father Nathan. Being there to support him and your Mom is the best you can do......it speaks volumes about you as a loving & caring son. Stay strong and be sure to express your feelings for him every chance you get. He sure sounds like he's willing to put in a good fight which is more than half the battle.....the news of how his Brother responded brings hope.
 
Nate, sending up smoke and prayers for your Dad for a full and speedy recovery...
 
Nathan,

I will continue praying for Dave to fight this off and Audrey to be strong through this challenge. I know from our previous PM's that Dave is a very dedicated man with a lot of spunk. I am glad that you will be able to make the trip to be with them to fight the good fight. That means the most to parents going through hard times to have their children there to support them.

Have a good trip, a great Thanksgiving, and let me know if I can do anything for you my friend.

Phil
 
Prayers, Nathan.

A friend of mine threw a surprise birthday fir his wife (~32) two Saturdays ago. That night, she had a migraine so bad they went to the er. After a bunch of tests, they found a brain tumor. Brain biopsy that Wednesday showed it was cancer. They're hopeful, but also scared to death. They've got a little girl less than a year old.


Michael

Thank you Michael. I'm so sorry about your friend. That is too young! I'll be praying for them.

Prayers up for your father, Nathan, and your friends wife, Michael.

Thanks KP!

Nathan,

Sorry to hear about your dad's situation getting worse. That sounds tough. I am glad to hear your are able to work it out with work to spend some more time with your folks.

I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Tod

Thank you Tod. It's greatly appreciated.

Prayer for you my friend. Cancer is just awful. I've lost my best friends 2 year old son last year to brain cancer, have another friends 4 year old fighting leukemia, and have a 34 year old friend fight brain cancer. Its overwhelming. Being there for them and staying positive is the best thing you can do, as I'm sure you are aware.

Wow, sorry to hear these. Seeing this happen with kids is overwhelming.

My dad takes it upon himself to be positive enough for all of us. I hope to be the same for him.

I am very sorry to hear about your father Nathan. I lost my dad to cancer 3 years ago. Your dad is in our prayers and we'll also be praying for you and your family for strength and comfort during this difficult time.

Thank you Dave. I'm sorry to hear about your dad. Cancer sucks.

Thoughts and prayers for your Father Nathan. Being there to support him and your Mom is the best you can do......it speaks volumes about you as a loving & caring son. Stay strong and be sure to express your feelings for him every chance you get. He sure sounds like he's willing to put in a good fight which is more than half the battle.....the news of how his Brother responded brings hope.

Thank you for the kind words and advice Peter. It's times like these when I look back over the years and regret the distance that's kept us apart (both physical in miles and relationally) and wish things had been different in the past. But all I can do now is make sure the right thing happens from here forward.

Nate, sending up smoke and prayers for your Dad for a full and speedy recovery...

Thank you Bill!

Nathan, You and your dad are in our prayers here in Virginia!

Thanks Will!

Nathan,

I will continue praying for Dave to fight this off and Audrey to be strong through this challenge. I know from our previous PM's that Dave is a very dedicated man with a lot of spunk. I am glad that you will be able to make the trip to be with them to fight the good fight. That means the most to parents going through hard times to have their children there to support them.

Have a good trip, a great Thanksgiving, and let me know if I can do anything for you my friend.

Phil

Thank you Phil. This means a lot to me brother. I hope you and yours have a happy Thanksgiving. I believe you're going to be about 70 degrees warmer on Thursday than us.


All, I really do greatly appreciate all the prayers, thoughts, words, smoke. I've been sharing these with my folks and it's very touching to know that prayers are going up from all over.
 
A quick prayer if you would...

My wife, children and I just drove down from Northern Michigan to southern Ohio To be a part of not only Thanksgiving with our family, but also a revealing party in which my brother and sister in law were going to come straight home from the hospital after an ultrasound and reveal whether in five months they would be having a boy or girl. They found out they were having a little boy....but also found out his little skeletal system was not growing to accommodate his lungs and heart..they told them he would live in the womb full term but never take his first breath on the outside, we believe God works miracles and can give peace that passes understanding, either way would be ideal...would you pray for peace for the family, or a miracle for the baby....which ever is Gods will.
 
Thoughts and prayers go out to Mommy and Daddy and everyone in the family. Miracles do happen and I truly hope this is one.
 
Matthew,

Praying for a miracle for Braxton and peace for the family.
 
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

Matthew - I will be praying for Braxton and your family.
 
Thoughts and prayers out to Matthew, Nathan and all family involved. I am thankful for all I have today and thoughtful of others dealing with hardship. Best wishes for all.
 
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