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Just to fill in some of the gaps somewhat, after I had received greged's email simply stating to "send it back" the next day to which I sent a followup email asking why I had received the curt reply, this is the explanation I received the following morning in an email from greged:
The dialog's over, you own the knife.
It is exactly as received from Dave Stark where the description was copied.
The only place it went was in the safe.
I'm not dicking you around either, you checked on this knife with numerous
people, and I assure you it is the same as when Will had it.
I think you are unreasonable in your expectations and I don't have the time,
(still working) or inclination to continue.
So, not only did he withdraw his earlier statement of "send it back", he had now somehow determined what was acceptable or not from my point of view based upon what he declared to be "reasonable".
I know that I can dispute the charge with visa and do the same with paypal. I have not done so hoping that he will have had time to think about his actions over the weekend and perhaps take a different approach during the coming week. If not, we'll proceed from there.
Having had a career of 25 years of federal law enforcement it pains me to think that I would have to use the legal system to adjudicate something I do as an avocation.
As has been said, one's good name, word and reputation are too valuable to allow to be damaged by a moment of bad judgement.
Frankly, if I thought it was a matter of greged just needing the money because he was in dire straits, we wouldn't be having this conversation. However, he mentioned to me that he was selling the knife to raise money to finance a hunting trip in Idaho. Hardly, what can be construed as dire need.
The dialog's over, you own the knife.
It is exactly as received from Dave Stark where the description was copied.
The only place it went was in the safe.
I'm not dicking you around either, you checked on this knife with numerous
people, and I assure you it is the same as when Will had it.
I think you are unreasonable in your expectations and I don't have the time,
(still working) or inclination to continue.
So, not only did he withdraw his earlier statement of "send it back", he had now somehow determined what was acceptable or not from my point of view based upon what he declared to be "reasonable".
I know that I can dispute the charge with visa and do the same with paypal. I have not done so hoping that he will have had time to think about his actions over the weekend and perhaps take a different approach during the coming week. If not, we'll proceed from there.
Having had a career of 25 years of federal law enforcement it pains me to think that I would have to use the legal system to adjudicate something I do as an avocation.
As has been said, one's good name, word and reputation are too valuable to allow to be damaged by a moment of bad judgement.
Frankly, if I thought it was a matter of greged just needing the money because he was in dire straits, we wouldn't be having this conversation. However, he mentioned to me that he was selling the knife to raise money to finance a hunting trip in Idaho. Hardly, what can be construed as dire need.