i have fibromyalgia and i hurt too. pain meds dont help or do anything to me. i wasnt feeling well yet i went out and had that box weighed. i dont charge for doing this although i probably should but i'm not that way. when i put the knife back up for sale i made up my mind that she wasnt good enough to own a knife i made. i learned one thing, dont deal by email or with rude people and use itrader.