I've followed this thread from the start and just wanna say a few things, I just concluded a similar trade where I traded a Swamp Rat Chopweiler for a Small Sebenza 21, now granted this may not seem like a lot of money to some of you guys tradin' on the exchange but to me it was significant amount trust to someone I have never dealt with before.
After the deal was proposed but before we made a deal I contacted several members who had dealt with the member I was to trade with for some feedback, all was good, my concerns, a member who was only here 4 months was lookin' to make a trade and I was nervous, (I've traded a few knives at $100 mark even those I've insured) but I saw no reason not to, so a deal was struck.
Unfortunately I could not ship until 10 days after the deal was made,(this was all discussed at length with the trader) and was okayed by both parties, in those 10 days I wrung my hands non stop wonderin' if I was gettin' scammed, in those 10 days I scoured TGB&U forum and every bad deal I read about just wound me up more and more but I saw something else in that subforum, all the great deals that have been done, they outnumbered the bad ones.
Long story short, the day came to ship and I contacted the other party told them I had shipped the Swamp Rat through a PM here at BFC and waited for a reply still worried maybe I was gonna be out a knife, in the meantime while checking out my email I noticed an email from the member stating he had shipped the knife first thing that morning, before I even went to my PO, again I'm concerned because now I've spent a week and a half reading how people ship nothing to them selves just to get a tracking# so they can send you a valid#, (when you check a tracking# it only tells you where it left from and where it's last scanned but not where it's goin').
In the mean time more angst and doubts, (now keep in mind there was no reason for me to feel this way, the person was trading with had good feedback he was just new to a forum I've been hanging out in for nearly 15 years)
I like face to face trades, everything is out in the open and if ya get screwed its your own fault but when trade behind the inter net ya can only go by guy feelings and the opinions of others, I kept tellin' myself this was it, never again.
Well 2 days passed and the knife was delivered uninsured and no signature needed, now this deal mimicked the OPs thread in that here I did everything the OP did and the member I felt with shipped the same way as MickeyD did.
Everything worked out fine I got a knife I've always wanted, got rid a knife I never used and until this thread was contemplating more trades.
Although neither you guys may ever trade with each other you've both proven to me that I would trade with either you folks here I think things it's control when the OP made the initial post here, I think the OP should of waited till Monday check the PO before everyone added their 2 cents worth.
I would guess clear communications with a specific set of agreed to conditions along a little patience will go long way towards makin' any trade or deal more successful less stressful.
Really sorry to hear the deal went the way it did but at least nobody's out $400, the lesson I'll take away from all this is to make sure everything's clear before either side proceeds with a trade.
BTW the trade I made was with Raybo and if anyone's interested, he's a standup guy and I would trade with him anytime.