I had SAKs and blister package moderns before finding forums. Once I started using the internet to explore reviews and forums, things accelerated quickly.
Bladeforums hasn’t been uniquely pivotal in that way. If anything, BF has helped me slow down. I find a lot of things here to begin looking at in depth, then I check out reviews, track down places to handle them if possible, look up specs, etc. This board has helped me identify my particular tastes, and that has helped me quickly rule out a lot of knives that I may have otherwise purchased. That may sound strange, because you’d think I could walk up to a knife case and say, “I like/don’t like this one”, and that is generally true. What I mean is, I now look at many knives and say, “that’s cool, but I’d be happier with something like _____.” I spend a lot more time researching, and far less time and money buying.
Another interesting development has been hitting a point where I don’t want a larger number of knives, because I enjoy being connected to mine. To really bond with a knife, I have to use it. Not carry. Use. That usually means pocket time on work days, where they get to shine. Even at 10 knives, I have too many to use each of them often. I tend to pocket my 0609 or 0562 most days, so everything else is mostly getting rotated in on days off right now.
I suppose it’s fair to say that BF discussions have helped me understand my relationship with knives.