And I did call PayPal, thanks to all concerned. Even though it didn't do me a bit of freakin good.
You delayed, for one thing. I would have been on this the moment it hit my radar, and I would have had a lot of internet data about the scammer to back up my claims.
Moreover, I would have been going back through all possible transactional data to get a read on the tracking. Leaving no stone unturned.
I read this whole thread, waiting to see if you'd take action. Why you kept waiting, I have no idea. Your explanation didn't make a lot of sense to me.
I agree with others here that you seemed to wallow in the victim role. That may not feel helpful to hear, but maybe if there's a next time, you can learn from it.
Just FYI... I don't always save every scrap of paper, but here's what I do.
(a) I pay for shipping with a credit card so there's a paper trail that connects a payment to a tracking number. Even if I can't locate this receipt six months later, the PO's database has a record of it, and I can figure out date/time of transaction from my CC company.
(b) I PM the buyer with his/her tracking info. Those PMs get saved onto my hard drive so I have a record of all tracking numbers and where they went.
With these in place, it might be a pain in the butt to track everything down in lieu of physical copies, but there is a trail for doing it.
I also don't ship internationally without adequate tracking. It pisses off some would-be international buyers, but that's their problem not mine.
I have made the occasional exception, but only for long-time posters (a) who I know and (b) who have stellar reputations here at BFC.