Amen, STeven. :thumbup: We've all been guilty of hitting
submit reply before our rationale cooled.
The forum thread is easy to misread. PM's on a thorny issue are next easiest choice, but a person-to-person call is incredibly revealing and worthy.
Thanks for your examples that you point us towards. I learn from you.
Coop
Coop references a different thread where I made a sarcastic, and to the outsider, belittling comment..about him......which I amended.
We all learn from each other....and that is REALLY the point of the Forums.
It is hard to learn from someone, though, when you are so insulted/frustrated/angry, that your mind is not open....and we have all done it, and will do it again.
The point from day one, and how I have treated the Forums, is that I would say ALL this stuff in person....it is incomprehensible to me to be any way different because this is cyberspace....
and I have a really hard time believing that certain participants in this thread would act that way one-on- one.....because I know them, and have interacted with them personally, even getting into heated arguements....heck, Josh even called me some bad names, and started off with "little s**t talkin' mf'er", of all the nerve

....but the respect is still there.....and it should be.....because this community, after all these years, is still not that large.
Some people lie, cheat, take advantage.......to get ahead, to make themselves feel better/bigger/more powerful....but we DON'T NEED to be THOSE people....we can disagree, and even be wrong....
but we still need to remember that we might be looking that person that we just insulted....I've done it, more times than I can remember, and it doesn't feel real good to see a man whose knives you impugned publicly at a show, but it was true, and I said it to their face, too, and got a chance to explain what the issues were, and hope it was a valuable experience for them.
Best Regards,
STeven Garsson