Please don't misunderstand me, Bfett (Troy). In Mark's defense, I DID mention that he's known as a very dependable seller who answers his e-mails promptly, thus eliminating worries that I or the other buyer were ripped-off. Of course a death in the family is of paramount importance, and if someone has the responsibility of running a business as Mark does, he should be cut some slack to be able to tend to personal matters.
However, it DOES bring an interesting point. If a person is running a one-man business online, and has personal matters overwhelming him at the moment, what is his obligation to the customer? I figure AT LEAST the person should notify potential or current customers promptly that he will not be available or that there might be delays while he sorts things out. I figure an announcement at his web-page or through e-mail or some other sort of device should be employed to let the customer know what's going on, then let him make the choice to make an order or not, to keep the order already made, or even to withdraw it so that the person who wants or needs his knives delivered quickly can choose another place. I had the original poster's concern of getting ripped off when 2 weeks had passed until I got a proper response, and half a week later learned the possible cause of the delay.
Bottom line is, customer expects to be treated right, yet given this circumstance, I don't mind waiting for things to be straightened out. However, it would certainly help if seller alerts buyer as to possible delays. Unfortunately, while not knowing the cause of delay, one of my e-mails toward Mark was rather cut-and dry, and I received back an automated response about the death of a family member. Of course, I felt embarrased after having sent that letter, and promptly e-mailed him to first deal with his personal matters and get in touch with me after he's solved them. I think that messy episode could have been avoided by alerting me or other buyers (others who I've seen posting here for quite a while asking where Mark is) as to possible delays. It would do buyers a service by letting them choose whether or not to make the order, and it would avoid having the seller's reputation or integrity questioned.
Again, I'm not tryng to tarnish Mark's reputation, as I'm sure it was built through honest dealings and excellent service. I'm just trying to make a general observation as to this whole episode, to see if we can all view this in another perspective.
Thanks,
-Flood