I'm not sure i quite get the grip you're talking about... but what about the Spyderco Persian? It's got a 3 inch blade. It's quite a nice sturdy knife, that is marketed and designed for gentleman's carry. Micarta and stainless steel bolsters so it looks quite classy.
http://www.knifecenter.com/kc_new/store_detail.html?s=SP105BMP
http://www.knifecenter.com/kc_new/store_detail.html?s=SP105BMP