"It's not that I'm a loser (though I feel like one a lot of the time) it's just that I can't find a girl that I know likes me and that I think is hot."
Well, for one thing, if you're always looking for "hot", you may be waiting longer than you think. Physical attraction seems to grow as you come to love a person for who they are (cheesy huh?). Look for a best friend in a girl, not the best face or body. You'll have no problem smoochin' a girl that you truly respect and admire, no matter what she looks like.
Oh yeah, and you're only as much of a loser as you think you are. If you believe you're not a loser, chicks will think so too.
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~Dave
"One in the hand is worth two in the sheath"